Would Yooh Rather Die Than Loose You GF/BF ? ? ?

[NIKKEE]

"All human acts are either folly, selfish, or have gone wrong. To die for another is folly, not love, as you leave them behind with a hole the shape and size of your heart. To work for a charitable cause is selfishness, not love, as you do so to fulfill what you believe is your duty, and it glorifies you, if not publicly then for yourself at the least. If any act can be seen as being truly for another with no benefit to you it is an act of folly or selfishness gone wrong, not love, as only the deranged and deluded would make movement if it did not in some way work to their own happiness. Thus the human soul can be appeased with the idea of a conscience, and thus do we live in belief that we work for one another, whilst serving none but ourselves."

Basically, everything humans do is for themselves in some way, no matter how much it looks like a sacrifice. Sacrifices are done to make us feel better about ourselves. Check the italic bit for my view on dying for someone that you love, and think about it: what would it achieve? You'd do it because you would feel bad otherwise, proving my point about all humans acts being selfish. Sorry to destroy the concept of morals, but this is truth.

Well, that's what I was trying to sort of say in mine.
I'd rather I had to live with the pain of not having him rather than me dying for him and him having to live, feeling sad and upset.

[Dudeitsme]

I would rather lose a g/f, And to the people who would rather die, thats kind of stupid, none of you are old enough to know thats the one your going to marry , most of you are under 17 and have a whole life ahead of your self and your gonna die for another 16-17 year old because you so call ''Love them'' when you dont know what love is its self i mean come on think about it for a second, if someone put a gun to your head and said ill shoot you or beat up your g/f b/f your gonna sy ''well shoot me now'' you wouldnt say that, Unless your in the situation your never gonna know what your gonna say.

[Juicette]

Hm.. Maybeee.

















But I dont have one =)
And happy!

[kasi]

to be honest, i have no idea right now.

[Rou]

Well if you die , you wont see your boyfriend or girlfriend again so either way your going to loose them...

[Badgez]

If it was either her to live or me to live, hate to sound selfish, but I'd live. Sorry, but thats the truth.

[JT-Fan]

i agree

[Uwe]

No, I wouldn't because if you truely loved this person, you'd care more about this persons happiness, thefore you should be happy that your partener has chose to leave you because then they'll be happy.

Thats why I don't get all these love movies, they obviously didn't love the person in question, and when people kill them selves because there partener leaves them, its pathetic because then you'd be messing this persons life up.

However, if you mean 'If your partener was going to die, would you take there place and die for them?' then yes, I can't stand the thought of Josh being hurt.

soo yeah..

[Herman]

I don't have one, but I suppose I'd rather live.. either way I'll still lose them, like someone said.

[PixelDoom]

Why does everyone go on about 'eternal love' and pointless stuff like that. If you get split up, GET OVER IT!