How do u tell someone you dont love them?

[Nightrose]

Um well my mate told my bf it was over but he still talsk to me like we are together but i think we would be better off just as friends like what my mate said but he hasnt listenend, and i not keen on hurting people that much.

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[Nightrose]

Sorry for double post but anyone?

[Zenzi]

Preferably somewhere private. Not in a public place, they'll never forgive embarrasment.

Somewhere out in the open. If theyre violent, you need someone to call an ambulence and keep you alive.

Somewhere they can't throw you out of. If you go back to theirs, don't make yourself look like an idiot by being thrown out or have things thrown at you from a window.

NOWHERE WHERE THEIRS SIBLINGS! Don't dump someone near to someones older brother or sister. It may be the last thing you do.

If you're a guy, i'd just tell her that you're gay, you'll end up best friends. It worked for my old girlfriend, but the only differance was, i wasn't just lying to get out of the situation.

[Nightrose]

Thanks for that +Rep for it Lol im a girl

[Zenzi]

Thanks for that +Rep for it Lol im a girl

Oooh. Sorry!

[Ostinato]

Sit him down and just explain the situation being honest. Tell him you think he's a great guy and you do love him, but just not in the same way he does you. Explain to him how you feel you would be better as friends and your not looking for a relationship at the moment.

As long as your honest, and at least try to respect his feelings then he should be fine... The sooner you leave it though, the more it will hurt him...

[James!]

Erm, " I dont love you "

[Zenzi]

Erm, " I dont love you "

You're such a sarcastic ****er. Why don't you log off, or stop taking the mess out of people.

[Nightrose]

Sit him down and just explain the situation being honest. Tell him you think he's a great guy and you do love him, but just not in the same way he does you. Explain to him how you feel you would be better as friends and your not looking for a relationship at the moment.

As long as your honest, and at least try to respect his feelings then he should be fine... The sooner you leave it though, the more it will hurt him...

Thanks so much.... +Rep

[Emicat.]

Its the worst thing to ask your mate to tell them. They will think they are just joking. You have to tell them. Just say "I don't think this is working" and explain about your feelings.