I need help.

[Ostinato]

Okay. First off - DON'T WORRY!

You are still young, and growing up. Like I have said several times over the past few weeks, during puberty your hormones are crazy!, causing your body to become confused with all the different signals and messages. Basically, some peoples sexuality gets a little confused, and they start thinking about the same gender etc.

Trust me, it is a very common and normal thing for guys to start thinking about other boys in a sexual way during puberty, even whilst they are going out with something.

However, you did what could be classed as 'experimenting', where you experimented sexually with another boy to see if you perhaps enjoyed it.

Now, you need to really have a think and see whether you liked it or not, and the thing is you most probably did, as would a lot of people who just havn't tried it. (Think about it, you didn't like chocolate till you tried it did you? ;])

The best way to solve this, is just let puberty take it's course. Your friend is probably in the same position as you, thinking hes just a bit confused. Don't go announcing your gay etc. as it may just be a phase your going through like I said, so wait until your much older and then see what your into.

However, what you did was wrong, as you were having sexual contact behind both of your girlfriends backs. If this boy thinks hes gay, and he has tried to do things with you several times, he needs to tell his girlfriend as it is completely unfair to her.

You, yourself need to decide what you want for now. If you think it will happen again between you, I suggest finishing with your girlfriend - otherwise she will just find out in the long run, and it'll all be worse off.

Good luck, and if you have any further questions etc. please feel free to PM me! :]

[WHANGFACE]

www.TeenHelp.org may be able to give further advice.

But firstly, there's nothing wrong with it, and your definatly not a freak. If you still like girls aswell as boys, your probaly bi, but you never know it can change. You may not be attracted to your girlfriend anymore, that happens sometimes thats no big deal so don't worry too much about that. If your close to your parents you could try talking to them, explaining what happened. But they might not take it very well as you are 13. Parents don't realise how quick you grow up sometimes. But seriously, there is no need to go to the doctors, your perfectly normal. I think by the looks of things you were a little curious but didn't know it. Seeing as you enjoyed it too you probaly are bisexual. But only time will tell and you'll have to wait and see.

Hope that helped :]

[Mitchell]

Do your rearend usualy hurt after two guys do it.
If I tell my mom that im hurting will she know why?

[WHANGFACE]

She probaly won't unless she has suspicions. Yeah, I would hagve though it would hurt especially if it was your first time.

Well yeah it hurts on your first time, lmao.

[FlyingJesus]

I wouldn't suggest going the whole way with him at 13 unless you're absolutely 100% comfortable with it, and by the fact that you posted this thread it doesn't seem that you are. Also, I'm inclined to think that this could be a joke because of the simple immaturity of that last post you made, but if that's not the case, then don't worry about things, I did things with guys a couple of years ago (I was 14) that I wouldn't have dreamed of doing before, and probably wouldn't do again. It's all a part of experimentation, and as Ostinato said, hormones.