Grr....

[FatJoe]

Well,

My girlfriend is going out this weekend to some trip with her friend and family... She promised me not to do anything stupid with other guys or anything.. I trust her but its really hard since she cheated on me.. She might come back and just tell me she did nothing but in reality she did :S... Please help!

[StripedTiger]

yeah theres always gunna be the little.. distrust there.

what you might have to do is jsut take her word for it?

[sarey]

The key to every relationship is trust.

Im sure both of you dont trust each other at the moment, but what she did was very wrong, if she promised, you just have to take her word for it, if she has done something, im sure she will tell you, just bare in mind she loves you, and that im sure you love her. Considering she has cheated on you, it makes taking her word for it even worse, but you two arn't going to get anywhere if you haven't got trust, try and focus on things for when she gets back, and take a breather for the moment.

[WhatDidIdoNow?]

While she's away, cheat on her. It levels it out and covers you just incase she does cheat on you again

[StripedTiger]

errr no... that doesnt help

[FatJoe]

Blah im so depressed right now.. I need someone to talk to

[sarey]

Well, im always here.
Dont listen to whatdididonow, that will just worsen the relationship.

[Swastika]

If you carnt trust each other, what are you doing together?
Split up with her ASAP, theres no point in trying to get the relationship back together, you'll still have the distrusting feelings.

-Jamie

[sarey]

Maybe they can get the trust back?
Ok ill put it this way.

If you wanna make it work.. try and make it work and stay with her.
If you think there is no hope at working it out, split.
If you dont want to work it out, split.
If she wants to work it out, stay together and see what happens.

Either way, trust is the key to any relationship, and love of course.

If you love her, try and work it.

[Drooped]

I'd say, go out and cheat once