Holiday Romance: Right or Wrong?

[Sabu]

This is mainly for people who are in a relationship, but if your not - feel free to vote or post.

On topic; is it bad to have a holiday romance without your loved one knowing? Or is it plain out of order?

[Ostinato]

This is mainly for people who are in a relationship, but if your not - feel free to vote or post.

On topic; is it bad to have a holiday romance without your loved one knowing? Or is it plain out of order?

It's damn right out of order and completely unfair on the person you 'love'.

By going on holiday, it doesn't mean that just because your away from your partner for a week or so, you can simply just get with the first thing you set eyes on, and I personall believe it's a chance to test your relationship and see whether or not your able to stay faithful.

If you actually do care about the person you are with, then it shouldn't be too hard and you won't go off with anyone, but if our relationship perhaps isn't great or if your not much of a person to make commitment, then it will be much easier for you to do so.

I feel that cheating is wrong no matter what the circumstances. It doesn't matter who you are with or where you are - at the end of the day you have still cheated on your partner, and you can't condole it just by thinking that your partner won't find out, and that your away from them for a bit.

[Nixt]

Why not? It's a holiday... have fun!

[Ostinato]

Why not? It's a holiday... have fun!

So you think by betraying the person you are supposed to be in love with, or have feelings for is fun? ;l

No matter what, whether or not if it's because yuo are just on holiday, it's still betrayal at the end of the day, and I don't think you'd like it if the tables where turned.

[Sabu]

So you think by betraying the person you are supposed to be in love with, or have feelings for is fun? ;l

No matter what, whether or not if it's because yuo are just on holiday, it's still betrayal at the end of the day, and I don't think you'd like it if the tables where turned.

You never know, your partner could have cheated on you without telling?

[Nixt]

So you think by betraying the person you are supposed to be in love with, or have feelings for is fun? ;l

Oh my, sorry... Once again my failure to actually read the thread has made me look foolish. I assumed it meant if you weren't in a relationship at the time.
If you are in a relationship, then no. Definitely not, just because it is a holiday it does not mean your commitments disappear.

[brandon]

You never know, your partner could have cheated on you without telling?

There would be no point being paranoid about it, and it would be stupid to cheat without actually knowing that the other person cheated on you.
Even if you were cheated on, doing the same thing isn't the solution.

[Sabu]

Did anyone see Club Reps 3 night ago? There was a couple, where the man went on holiday without his wife/girlfriend. She said "Get lost and have a great time. If you find a holiday romance, don't tell me about it!"

Don't ask me why I posted this

[benjirofl]

Its wrongg.

[Victimized]

It's wrong and it would all come back around anyway, it would never get kept secret because you'd always have a stupid relative who would say "you met that nice girl back in Corfu didn't you Ben, i think she liked you etc..."