i went to see a movie with a few of my friends last night and there was a guy that i didnt know there. my best friend had a crush on him, and me and him sat by eachother at the movie & he was leaning on my seat etc trying to get closer i guess. so after the movie, he asked my best friend for my number and msn address and told her that he liked me, and now my best friend is extremely mad at me and i didnt do anything. what should i tell her to get her to be not mad anymore? i don't even like this guy anyway / never will.
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Thread: k what should i do?
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k what should i do?
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Aw, that's a shame. Basically, I think that because she was upset and sort of humiliated by the whole situation, shes just looking for someone to blame - but unfortunately there is no one.
Originally Posted by frozenillusion
You need to re-assure her you are not even interested in the guy and you don't even know him, so your friends welcome to him. Aswell as this, you need to tell her it is in no way your fault the guy didn't like her!
You should maybe also give her some advice, ask her to get talking to him o messenger or something and shel your maybe trying to help her get with him.
At the end of the day, we all know it wasn't your fault - including your friend, so she just needs to get over the rejection and accept it!Ostinato...
Slightly Obsessed with Mrs. Aguilera
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Hey, Never say Never
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i've done that, but she keeps making up an excuse. part of our conversation went like this... Originally Posted by Ostinato
her: :@
me: i didnt even do anything...?
her: yep, you did everything
me: okay then what did i do exactally
her: you made him like you and you knew i liked him :@
me: how did i? i went to the movies, and i didnt wanna sit by him so i sat on the other side of you so he would sit beside you. its not my fault he went over and sat by me...
her: yeah but he fell for you!
me: thats not my fault?!
and she hasnt said anything since... what should i say to her?
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She is just jelous because the guy she wants likes you. Its not your fault she is angry and taking out the easiest way my laying blame on you.
You could just tell the guy your not interested and that your friend likes him?
Or try to set them up together.
At the end of the day you did nothing wrong and she knows that. She has a case of unrequited love that she is blaming on you.
→he said call me now
→and id come a running
→If you'd call me now baby id come a running.
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I agree with evreyone she is just jelous and you didn't do anything wrong at all, in a couple of days she will relise that you dont fancy him & he was the one coming on to you , Just keep remembering you did nothing wrong and you have nothing to say sorry for!
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Like I said, because she was rejected and she made it clear to everyone she liked him, shes feeling pretty humiliated so she is therefore looking for someone to pin the blame on - in this case you. Originally Posted by frozenillusion
It's extremely unfair, so you just get her told that you did nothin wrong and if she can't just get over it then your going to need to put your friendship on hold. She isn't a true friend if, just because she didn't get her own way, she's going to try and blame you for her rejection!
Ostinato...
Slightly Obsessed with Mrs. Aguilera
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Your really good at helping people Originally Posted by Ostinato
it's good to know that if i had a problem you could give good advice. You've basicly said it all =)
Last edited by Bugsey6; 17-08-2006 at 10:42 AM.
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Originally Posted by Bugsey6
Your really good at helping people it's good to know that if i had a problem you could give good advice. You've basicly said it all =)
Lol aw thanks, it really means a lot to me when people are grateful for the advice I take time to give them! :]Ostinato...
Slightly Obsessed with Mrs. Aguilera
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Since your friend feels embarrassed you could plot together to embarass him mwahahahaha....
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