Are you a virgin?

[RbarisR]

Right, time for my monthly post. Im having trouble with logging in atm because im on my uncles PC in Spain so some of the quotes will be from memory, sorry if theyre innacturate, but I really dont care.

I suppose I'll start with what Ostinato said, as I can remember that best. I completely agree, and hold that view myself and always have done. If you've even got half a brain you'll use protection etc, and if you want to keep the relationship going you'll make sure your partner is ready first.

The person who said the thing about law, I personally dont believe the law has any significant input into your decision, or at least shouldn't. The law is there as a guideline, and although it is actually a law, no-one is looking for underage people who have had sex and is locking them all up. the law is merely there so brainless people who thing they're hard (chavs) don't go and get pregnant (not that it's stopped many chavs yet, but you can only hope).

But this of course is not counting religion. If you religion doesn't permit it, don't go against it. It is primarily your choice which religion, if any, you follow, and since you have chosen it yourself, you should follow the rules. You cannot call yourself a true follower otherwise.

My personal opinion is you are never too young past about 13 when you have at least started puberty, but don't go and waste your first time. Make it special, plan it if needs be and make sure it's something you can remember for the rest of your life as a good thing. You only have one shot at a first time. Aside from that, go for it, let it happen and enjoy it.

And in case you haven't already guessed, no, I'm not, and I don't care what anyone else thinks. Im happy with my decision and even if i wasn't, i can't change it now.

And just in case you wanted to put that into context, I'm 14, so please take my advice if you want, but don't use it as a concrete law.

that was a speech :rolleyes::eusa_clap

[Allan_banvict0m]

Allan if you're ashamed of being a virgin at 15 you need to reconsider your thoughts on the subject. Yes, sex is something enjoyable (very much so) but it's not something that you should just throw around. People will say "Oh, you're young, you should be out playing the field" and such, but I don't believe in that one bit. If you've been with 50 girls by the time you're 18, any future girlfriends (long-term who actually care about you at least) may have a hard time coming to terms with it. I'm not saying you shouldn't enjoy female company (or male if you prefer), but you should be careful and not just get with anyone who's wet and willing.

Your saying, don't have sex as much as it may affect future relationships? live for the moment!

and, as i stated my mate has had a lot of... sexual partners but i am fussy on who i'd go out with even though i can't exactly preach but still, his burds i wouldn't ever think about anything if they were the last person on earth, nevermind getting sexual. So yea, i wouldn't say i'm up for anyone willing cause i wouldnt be a virgin right now

[Many]

im o2
and yes i currently am..
no dont get ideas pls.

[Stab]

there is nothing wrong with being a virgin
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I think some of you should remember that

[Victimized]

I'm still working on it..

[Nadgers]

Yup, no shame either.

[Barwy]

100% Virgin

[Slash]

virgin.

[Victimized]

.....Still working on it

[Mitch4?]

No
&I regret it.

Same ;/