Upset [Only want Girl advice]

[Emmajo]

This is for GIRLS to give me advice on.

I've been in love for a long time now with my boyfriend, but when I go on my "time of the month" I always kind of.. not feel what I used to. Like I won't miss him or I won't want to get physical with him. I read on Google that once a girl starts her "time of the month" her estrogen (and the other hormone) reduce dramatically and I know they're hormones for like, love etc.
It really makes me upset because I get so scared that I'll fall out of love with him. I probably won't but still.
He also doesn't do anything, at all, to put me off - so it must be hormones.

Any advice on how to stop this?

[chanel$]

I seriously wouldn't worry about it, it happens to every girl although i get VERY moody and ******. Its just your hormones being all over the place : ).
And about trying to stop it, you can't just switch off like that. Although i wish i could its not going to happen just keep telling yourself it's your hormones [which it is].

[cocaine]

just explain to him about this.

[chineseartist]

just explain to him about this.

dont post ur a boy i think u should dump him tbh

[:Hazel]

This isn't the sort of thing you can really stop if its your hormones they can be outta control sometimes. :p I'm sure if you talk to your boyfriend & explain your feelings he'll understand if you get a bit grouchy with him every so often!

[beth]

if you wanna stop your periods, go on the pill but you can't stop yr hormones.

[splatttt]

if you wanna stop your periods, go on the pill but you can't stop yr hormones.

thats a good idea.

but why dont you just tell him about it, im sure he will understand
if he doesnt, then hes stupid :]

[Emmajo]

Thanks you lot. I spoke to him about it and he was fine!
I feel back to normal aswell. : D

[Ostinato]

Although I'm not a girl, I feel I still might be able to help slightly.

Like you say, you only feel this at the time of your period. So obviously, you arn't literally falling out of love or anything - but simply because your going a short period of time within your body your experiencing mixed feelings and emotions - making you think you no longer love your boyfriend.

All you can really do is sit them out. You've already spoke to your boyfriend which is great, and as he understand it shows you do have a good relationship and are with a good guy!

[StainCast]

I'm allowed to post because i like boiz.

If you love him, truly and he truly loves you, you'll stay together.

The pill is a good idea because it tricks your body into maintaining the amount of oestrogen in your body. It also stops periods.

I wouldn't worry too much about it.. You're young. You'll get used to the feelings and your body will change and adapt to suit the unusual feelings.

Give it time chick.

x