I have issues.

[Shawnstra]

Really sorry to hear this. If this is the case, I suggest you move out, its not worth destroying your life living with her like this anymore. Talk to your grandparents, or you can call a helpline [like childline], just google it for its hotline. I know that you feel sad for your mom, hurting her by leaving her, but it is really coming to a point that there is no other choice, only by leaving her, she will see how important you are to her, and not treat you like dirt. So by doing so, you are actually helping her be a better person. At this point, I would like to ask: Is her temper like that with your other relatives?

Anyway, I suggest calling your relatives first, when you can't really get good advice from them, go for a helpline.

Good luck in solving this problem

[Technologic]

Tell her this

"You utter ****, you have ruined my childhoood. When i am older you will expect me to look after you like you (sarcastically) looked after me. But i wont, i am going to leave you out in the cold, ignore your wishes and treat you like scum. Just like the way you did to me"

My frbest mate used those exact words and now his life is a lot better.

[vicious]

basically tell him everything you just told us,
no one should be treated that way especially by their own mother ;l
if shes not reasonable go do what she said for you to do,
go live with your dad.
tell your grandma everything that she does, seeing as she has the guts to stand up to your mum.
i hope everything works out.

[DJCurto]

when she next time argues with u shout at her & she will understand that & she'll think that shes gone 2 far