So my friend is...

[Greed]

So I’m in a pretty big pinch… my best friend whom I known for quite a while, is resenting me in the worst possible way. He’s ignoring me and not telling me what is wrong with me. I guess my biggest mistake was opening up my feelings in front of him. Which I think was a sign of weakness to him. Now he’s just ignoring me… when he signs on MSN he doesn’t talk to me as much and when I talk to him its all “Ehh…” “Ok” “Nahh” answers… which is killing me inside. I mean, just last week we were so cool with each other, but I had to open up and ask him “So do you trust me?”. I asked him after he told me during school “see, that’s why I didn’t wanted to tell you this” when I made a little silly remark about this girl he likes. Which I felt that it was really stupid… I

It’s like he’s purposely trying to distance himself from me—and why? Because he found a girl he likes? To tell you the truth, this has happened twice to me where my “best” friend dropped me after they met a girl/guy. I’m really afraid that it will happen with him, I mean… we’ve done so much—that I don’t want to get wasted just because of a stupid remark I did. I did apologize, and he gives me this crap that “Why would you care what others think?” “I have no emotions” crap… I did tell him “You’re my best friend, and I do care for you… that’s why I it does matter”. One thing is… if he doesn’t have emotion and can’t accept love from others… then I don’t see how he’s going to manage with some girl he met on myspace. Which I shown him to her. [Which is exactly like my other friend… he met his gf on myspace and dropped me for her].

[of course their girls from our area/school].

What can I do? What should I do? What can you guys tell me?

- Moose

[Janet Snakehole]

Perhaps you should just try and ask them why they are ignoring you.. and approach them gently about it. I've been in the same situation before and just asked them why they were being that way, and they explained to me why they were acting the way they were.. and basically, we got everything sorted and were the best of friends.

So perhaps you should try and approach them.

[Mikkaoz]

I'd ignore him, if he is doing this then he shouldn't have been your friend in the first place.

[FlyingJesus]

Get with the girl he likes

[Cwmbran]

Ignore him, if he considerd you as a best friend he would realise what he has done and would start to miss you.

The balls in his court as you have apologized, there is nothing you can do.

[Decapitated!]

Lol ignore him when that girl dumps him or w.e hell come crawling to you and you can just blank him then.

[Greed]

Perhaps you should just try and ask them why they are ignoring you.. and approach them gently about it. I've been in the same situation before and just asked them why they were being that way, and they explained to me why they were acting the way they were.. and basically, we got everything sorted and were the best of friends.

So perhaps you should try and approach them.

The thing is... he's serious about this who "emotion" thing. Everyone who shown their emotions around him are dead meat to him. I wish it can work out like that... but the only time he does allow me to do that is when we're hanging out outside of school... but with everything that has happened, I doubt thats going to work.

[stratosphere]

If he doesn't have emotions then he's not human.

If he ignores you, you ignore him. He's probably ignoring you because he knows it'll rip you up inside.

[CJW93]

Ignore him

[:Hazel]

maybe hes just ****** at the remark you made about his g/f. if hes ignoring you over that then thats pathetic, maybe apoligise for that and try and speak to him face to face (not on MSN) and ask him why is he upset with you?