Running away

[ToxicPaddy]

Hello

Well, basically, I dont like homelife. At all. My real dad doesnt live with us, and I live with my mum, mums boyfriend, and 2 sisters. I sometimes get on with her boyfriend, and sometimes dont but in general I dont like him. My mum is fine to live with and my baby sister is also good to live with. My 12yr old sister is really really, well, bad. When my mum isint looking, she will throw remote controls or candles at me and hit me and pull my hair. It sounds a little childish, but after a while you cannot put up with it any longer. She gets me in trouble for things I didnt do, and surprise surprise she is always seen as the innocent little sister who hasnt done anything wrong, which gets me in trouble. School is good, and its nice to get away from my family.

Me and my friend are going to London on saturday to get away from everything, its close and he needs to get away aswell. My mum thinks we are going to town, if I told her the truth I wouldnt be allowed. Both of us are considering running away while we are in London. I really want to, but im worried if I get caught because if I do I will be in so much trouble no doubt.

Has anyone been in a situation like this before? Can anyone give me advice? All help is appericiated.

ToxicPaddy

[Nemo]

dont run away, you will regret it. tell your mum about her BF and just explain to her seriously that your sister is annoying you, also threaten ur sis and scare her.

[whoooosh]

Running away from everything wont solve your problems
they will still always be there
you just need a break from everything
and tell your mum whats happening

[dirrty]

how old are you?

[ToxicPaddy]

Im 13, and I tell my mum about things like sister and mums boyfriend, and she says that I should ignore it.

[Nemo]

tell her again, tell her that you are thinking of running away, she may say NO i wont let you, tell her she cant lock you up forever and you will if things arent soughted out.

[dirrty]

well thats pointless then isnt it?

where are you gonna live, how are you gonna pay for things?

you may think that running away is better than homelife, but i doubt it is. call childline if you have problems, not run away. that wont solve anything.

also if that doesnt work, live with your dad if you can.

[ToxicPaddy]

I didnt think where I would live, It wasnt planned properly. To live with my dad I have to move country, and his new wife doesnt want me too.

[Galactica]

Mate, you might think running away will solve things... But it really wouldn't what would you do, what would you live on and mainly where would you live...

Those are three main points and I doubt you could solve any of those, if you ran off... if you do have problems at home and don't like living at home and would rather live with foster parents, then maybe ring the child line... They will question your mum and maybe put you in foster care.. Which I doubt you would like... Because I'm sure I would prefer to live with my parents.

If your struggling with life, feel free to PM me and I'll answer any questions needed.

Josh

[adidas™]

dont be pathetic. running away isnt going to solve anything.