Don't Know What To Do?

[@K]

Ok, well my ex girlfriend from half a year ago or so has recently told me she loves me as I do her, and basically when I told her, I said 'I'm in love with you'. Now comes the complicated part, she has a boyfriend, and to be honest he's a little *******, he's a complete druggy and I don't particularly want her to follow in his foot steps. She has told me that she would love to get back together with me but can't because she doesn't want to hurt me like last time when we was together, and has also said I'm the one for her and that there's no one else out there who has or probably will ever treat her as I had. Now to make things worse, I am moving back to England in less than a month, and have told her I will stay here for her, and I really would.

Now I was really just hoping for your advice on what to do, or what you would do in my situation. BTW I DON'T WANT 'DON'T DATE YOUR EX' comments.

.x

[Muniflex]

If you really do love her and feel that it really will work in the long run then there is no reason you shouldn't stay in spain for her.
I have been in a similar situation but was too young to hang around and regretted it for a long time.
Do what you feel would be best for the both of you.
And good luck

[@K]

Cheers

[Muniflex]

Buen suerte amigo

[Nixt]

In all honesty I think you should go back. You say you love her and she says she loves you, but that's not strictly true and there is no way I can prove it and therefore I am going to be cynical. She has a boyfriend, and she hurt you last time - to be honest it doesn't look like things are destined to work out between you both so it would be foolish to stay for her.
Nevertheless, I don't know her and you obviously do. If you think she is genuine and you really, really do feel that way about her then do it. Just think carefully, because it's quite a big decision to make.

[@K]

Well she's just told me she's broken up with him, but I still don't know what to do and at the moment I feel like utter ****
Y mucho gracias tio.

.x

[Muniflex]

Like i said if your really think she is your amor de la vida and you are sure it will work out in the long run between you both then stay.
If you are having major doubts though then corre.

Do what you feel is right, don't let her or anyone else pressure you into anything.

[@K]

Well I've decided to just leave, subconciously I've always hated her, as much as I do in fact love her, because of things that have happened, and at the moment I'm too happy just to leave Spain and come to England.

[Muniflex]

Ha after all that

Well good luck and im sure you made the right decision!