So unfair

[Jordy]

I just cannot believe this, today I went to my cousin's funeral. He got married last Summer and was just 28, he got cancer later on that Summer and died in a hospice 10 days ago, the funeral was today, very very bad and sad that was, and unfair but then it just continues. After the after-party of my cousin's funeral, his sister just 20 (21 next month) has a asthma attack and dies on the spot. 2 Cousin's gone in one day, so unfair, I just can't see the chance's of it happening and why. I also don't understand how their parents will move on and take this in, it's just so... indeed.

I can't get over it but the thing is, I already was an atheist/agnostic and I spend a day being preached to by a priest about Christian's, life and death cause of the funeral, and then God allows this to happen?

Just muddled up at the moment

[Danny,]

Wow, sorry to hear it.
Didnt know you could die of an asthma attack, did noone have an inhaler?

[Jordy]

Wow, sorry to hear it.
Didnt know you could die of an asthma attack, did noone have an inhaler?

I was already on the way home when it happened, but I think it needs more than a inhaler she also only had asthma when she was little and had very little effects of it in recent years, things like stress can bring on a asthma attack and clearly as it was her brother's funeral that was the case. It's not absolutely confirmed it's an asthma attack though, post-mortem tomorrow.

[Thetan]

Thats sounds bad, I hope your alright. My very close Aunt Louise died of cancer more then a year ago. It still makes me sad.

[bigdavecox90]

Sorry mate, thoughts are with you.

[Antony]

Wow really shocking news, I'm sorry for you and your family.

It's strange how you pray and stuff when people have died despite not being a believer.

Stay strong for the family.

[Jericho]

I spoke to you earlier about this, i totally get you. I totally get you about the God thing, im christian and after being brought up about the whole way it works, sometimes I think exactly the same.

To be honest, I would take some time to get your head together.. but im not telling you what to do, dont take it the wrong way.

As I said to you earlier, i prey to god everything will be fine with you and your family dude, speak soon.

[Charlie]

I'm really sorry to hear that. I don't know what else to say, that's quite shocking.

[lew!]

that sucks, I almost died from an asthma attack on holiday, i remember just choking in bed and then waking up in hospital with a green mask on my face, horrible tbh

[PaulMacC]

Sorry to hear about that, 2 relatives in one day
I've had 3 relatives in a year but RIP to your cousins.