Girl help

[blackops121]

Hey, theres this girl in my class and ive fancied her since i first met her but i think she has no intrest in me what so ever but its confusing me some times she wants to sit next to me and wants to talk to me and stuff like she really likes me but then other times its like she hates me with her life and she thinks im a moron i dont get it and ive wasted a whole YEAR of my education becuz ive been tryna be funny in class to impress her but its turned out im like the class clown and im always getting in trouble on a behaviour card Ect. and i dont wanna be like tht but just seeing her makes me wanna impree her so badly and make her laugh but its sooo hard for me without getting in trouble so i need some serious adivce because i cant let my education get ruined no more i really wanna be a police officer when im older and i cant if im ruining my education over a girl.

please give me advice on how i could try keep my self from trying to impress her and be the 'class clown' please sooo much appreciated because if u help me get over this girl u can change my life, no lies.

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[leah]

firstly, try and be quieter in lessons.
Maybe, get to know her a bit better aswell,
and when she acts like she hates you, ask her why she acts like it?
she might say, I don't hate you you never know
If you quieten down In lesson, she might like you more, not all girls are impressed by class clowns [:

[blackops121]

Ty, for the advice, im gonna try quiten down in lessons and yh i think it is because im acting like the class clown she acts like me hates me and soon as holidays finished and i go bk to school im gonna try stop acting like tht and if she still says like i hate u and tht ill ask her y she will think im funny then suddenly turn on me,

any one else got good advice for me to try get her to like me or help me stop being a class clown?

+ rep for leah

[Toughened]

Education comes first.
I don't know how many times I post this but it seriously does.
You have your whole life ahead of you.

If you're that bothered talk to her.
Ask her how she feels.
She may feel the same way and you two could get together or she may not see you in that way and just want to be friends.

No girl is worth you education.
I may be single for along time with that attitude but it's true. I'd much rather have an education than a girlfriend at this moment in time in my life.

Wait till your older I say though.

[blackops121]

thanks, i might say to her if she likes me or not and that but i still dont think i have the balls to lol

[:Edzy]

Hey, theres this girl in my class and ive fancied her since i first met her but i think she has no intrest in me what so ever but its confusing me some times she wants to sit next to me and wants to talk to me and stuff like she really likes me but then other times its like she hates me with her life and she thinks im a moron i dont get it and ive wasted a whole YEAR of my education becuz ive been tryna be funny in class to impress her but its turned out im like the class clown and im always getting in trouble on a behaviour card Ect. and i dont wanna be like tht but just seeing her makes me wanna impree her so badly and make her laugh but its sooo hard for me without getting in trouble so i need some serious adivce because i cant let my education get ruined no more i really wanna be a police officer when im older and i cant if im ruining my education over a girl.

please give me advice on how i could try keep my self from trying to impress her and be the 'class clown' please sooo much appreciated because if u help me get over this girl u can change my life, no lies.

Thread moved by Minty (Forum Moderator) from Relationships, it fits this section better. Title also edited in compliance with rule B14.

Knuckle down in class. i'm a bit of a class clown because i get bored in science mostly because i always understand it before everyone else. Its selfish causing a disruptance as i have learned. Don't go out of your way to impress a girl, just be yourself. Maturity is an asset to be a police officer. No set requirements although entrance tests include English, Maths, logical reasoning and observation. Many applicants have GCSES, A levels or equivalent or a degree. You want to be the one with all of those to help you get your job. If she likes you, wait for her to say it. Until then just be yourself, try and get to know her.

[blackops121]

okay thanks, its sooo hard for me tho i dont know why i just have this urge to do it!
i mean im getting the top marks in class and in best like levels but im just getting sent out class alot and behaviour card Ect.
so dose anyone have a solution to maybe for me to do even if its sychological solution to maybe help me to like just not say anything and get on with my work and stop having the urge to say something stupid/funny or make fun of someone Ect.?

[BaybeeElin]

To put it simply, it's obvious she isn't impressed by your new reputation of being bad in class.
You need to be quieter and just be yourself, people will like you for it.
You don't need to change yourself to impress people, live for yourself and the people that love you!
Just focus on your work for a while.
I'm sure you will find someone who likes you for who you are!
But if you really can't forget about her, talk to her and see if you can get along, but don't rush into things.

Good Luck x

[Born_To_Live]

Don't be a fool?

She may just NOT like you.

[lewis-moody]

Be quite
Get on with things
Talk to her and impress her out of class

Thats the way to go