Mum..

[Palda]

That seems truly horrible, I’m like the opposite with my mum. She loves me to bits and my twin sister. She can’t stand when things go wrong. If I was you I would just shout you’re the worse mum I have ever had, and no one no one likes you why don’t you get of your lazy *** and get a job and stop dissing your only daughter. Then say you want to give live with your dad, I don’t honestly think your gran would take your mums side if she’s threatening to disown you. Maybe talk to another relative about this and tell them how your mum is treating you. She can’t possibly disown you. After all you’re her baby. Just ask her Mum can I live we my dad or my aunty or uncle. Someone who actually cares for me? When she says you look horrible you should argue with her stand up to her and say you can’t talk at least I’m on my way for a good education unlike you who can’t be bothered to get a job. What’s the point in you being here mum? No one likes you then tell her she’s pathetic. Call child line if she continues or someone who can give you more advice then I can.

[luce]

You need to speak to someone about this. Its not right for you to be treated so negatively all the time. Is there a aunty or Gran you can speak to. If there is there anybody else you can trust - a teacher maybe? I feel for you it must be terrible. People do act like this when they are depressed but you shouldn't have to suffer for it You are wanted by your friends at Habbox though, Lizzie.

i agree i think you should. and also i don't think you should see family i think you should call or go to someone profesionaly or something like that becuase i have a best friend who is not in rehab in southhampton. And my best best friend has not got help with her selfharming and its kinda getting better so it does help

That seems truly horrible, I’m like the opposite with my mum. She loves me to bits and my twin sister. She can’t stand when things go wrong. If I was you I would just shout you’re the worse mum I have ever had, and no one no one likes you why don’t you get of your lazy *** and get a job and stop dissing your only daughter. Then say you want to give live with your dad, I don’t honestly think your gran would take your mums side if she’s threatening to disown you. Maybe talk to another relative about this and tell them how your mum is treating you. She can’t possibly disown you. After all you’re her baby. Just ask her Mum can I live we my dad or my aunty or uncle. Someone who actually cares for me? When she says you look horrible you should argue with her stand up to her and say you can’t talk at least I’m on my way for a good education unlike you who can’t be bothered to get a job. What’s the point in you being here mum? No one likes you then tell her she’s pathetic. Call child line if she continues or someone who can give you more advice then I can.

I think this is out of order and will not help her at all. Take your head out of your *** for a minuite and think before you post!

[:Edzy]

If i were you babe,

i'd tell your mum:

Look, things need to change otherwise you won't see me around.

it's hard to change people. maybe you could live with your Dad for a while until she realises?

Make sure she knows how much you hate it. Be a drama queen. Things must change.

[Palda]

LOOOL, Ledgendonlegs I can say whatever I want. That is really what i would do, your only telling her to call childline which i do agree with as I said so in my post. It seems to me like the mother is basicly bullying her own child which is disgraceful. I would actually argue with my mum if she was the one doing all this. Teenages are meant to have some attitude. She should ask her mum whys she such a horrible cow and treats her like crap. That's what i would do.

Im just stating out my advide like she asked for.

*Removed*

Soz hun, but i'm just saying how it is. Unlike you who keeps telling her to get professional help. It's the mother who needs that.
She should either call childline
Stand up to her mother
Tell a relative

That's really all she can do and ledgend w/e you should really think about writing your own advice insted of just agreeing/disagreeing with others.

My mum puts me down so much, every detail, from how I look onwards. I will be doing some work, and she always tries to catch me not working, as if i lie, she knows how stressed i am with exams, yet she accuses me of pretending to be working. She also shouts at me, for something the dog would do, and when i mean shout i mean scream till your throat hurts. She drove my Dad away, and plays mindgames to make me hate him, even tho she says he does that but he really doesn't. So anyway, she shouts non stop, and it causes me to shout, i can't really describe how much i hate my life, she tells me non stop how horrible i am, how she wishes i would leave, how horrible i look wearing what ever i am wearing, and then when other people are around she acts so nice and fake, she claims she has depression but i think it's an excuse for her to not go to work. I try telling her how upset she makes me feel, like today i told her how hard i work and how she puts me down really makes me not want to bother with exams anymore, and she punished me. I cry everyday, and tried to kill myself once because of her, before you ask i am not a emo i just feel so unwanted.

Ok For a Starus Don't let your mum talk to you like that. Say why are oyu being so mean? I wish you never had me. If that don;t work tell her you want her to disown you, i'd rather have no mum at all then someone who is that mean. Call childline tell them about it ask what you should do. If I was you, I'd call your dad, tell him you fool so scared and horrible. Tell them you tried to kill youself and how hard life is. Maybe tell a friend you can trust at school, see if she/he will help? i mean what are friends for?

Anyway don't kill yourself, why should you have no life because of what your mums done? Maybe you should call childcare or relatives or maybe even the police if it's that serious.

That seems truly horrible, I’m like the opposite with my mum. She loves me to bits and my twin sister. She can’t stand when things go wrong. If I was you I would just shout you’re the worse mum I have ever had, and no one no one likes you why don’t you get of your lazy *** and get a job and stop dissing your only daughter. Then say you want to go live with your dad. I don’t honestly think your gran would take your mums side if she’s threatening to disown you. Maybe talk to another relative about this and tell them how your mum is treating you. She can’t possibly disown you. After all you’re her baby. Just ask you Mum if you can live with you dad or your aunty or uncle. Someone who actually cares for you. When she says you look horrible you should argue with her stand up to her and say you can’t talk at least I’m on my way for a good education unlike you who can’t be bothered to get a job. What’s the point in you being here mum? No one likes you then tell her she’s pathetic. Call child line if she continues or someone who can give you more advice then I can.

Ok i think i have made my corrections. Didn't check what i put. Made some mistakes, but ledgend seriously you're the one who should get a life. Telling people what advice to put. It's my own oppinion. Sorry but you're really stupid.

Also maybe call the hosbital tell them your mum need's help and you don't want to live in the same house as her. Speak out, it's your life don't let her ruin it. IF my mum did that to me. I'd swear at her, and scream and shout. I'd call my dad tell him to take my with him. Or my grandma or uncle or aunties

I'd also call the hosbital or a mental home, and say my mum needs help.

My mum has been ill in the past but allways loves me. :[

I hope you get help :[


Edited by ,Jess, (Forum Moderator): Posts merged, please do not multiple post, simply edit your first post also please do not be rude towards other members of the forum.

[leah]

I got in trouble because of this thread!
I blame your mother, lol.

[iChaz]

you've probably got it worse than me.. but this sounds very similar to the problems i've got atm, my mum claims to have "Agrophobia" (fear of leaving the home,) yet she can go to the park and take my nieces out when it suits her and depression just so she doesn't have to work, she's lazy I get home from school she's not even awake.. last night she told me to go to the kebab shop to get her some food I went no I cba so she chased me into my room and pushed me onto the bed, then I ran downstairs and into the garden she was embarassed the neighbors would be watching so call's me in and goes i'm not going to do anything so I went in and she screamed at me, pinned me down on the sofa and covered my mouth and nose.. she know's I haven't been very good lately and have had to go to meeting's with people.. she call's me a "******" and a "*******" when she know's how self concious I am about what people think of me.. the odd thing is she can go nuts over nothing and just put me down because she feels like it and at other times be nice as pie or after she's finished being horrible to me she feel's guilty but she's out of control and I can't take it when she randomly starts on me and fights me. so I feel for you and I hope things get better

[Palda]

you've probably got it worse than me.. but this sounds very similar to the problems i've got atm, my mum claims to have "Agrophobia" (fear of leaving the home,) yet she can go to the park and take my nieces out when it suits her and depression just so she doesn't have to work, she's lazy I get home from school she's not even awake.. last night she told me to go to the kebab shop to get her some food I went no I cba so she chased me into my room and pushed me onto the bed, then I ran downstairs and into the garden she was embarassed the neighbors would be watching so call's me in and goes i'm not going to do anything so I went in and she screamed at me, pinned me down on the sofa and covered my mouth and nose.. she know's I haven't been very good lately and have had to go to meeting's with people.. she call's me a "******" and a "*******" when she know's how self concious I am about what people think of me.. the odd thing is she can go nuts over nothing and just put me down because she feels like it and at other times be nice as pie or after she's finished being horrible to me she feel's guilty but she's out of control and I can't take it when she randomly starts on me and fights me. so I feel for you and I hope things get better

You seem to have it just as bad is undiscovered. Your mum shouldn't be allowed to cover your mouth and insult you like that. Call childline or tell a relative about how your feeling and what shes doing is wrong.

Hope this helps
Zoe x

[jackass]

I think you should go and live with your dad, she doesn't seem like a nice person at all.

I have had serious problems with my parents also, I know how hard it is. I hope it gets better - good luck!

[cocaine]

you need to talk to someone before anything can get better :]

if it cant be any worse then surely it can get better :]

[Frisky]

I know how you feel. You stuck in a situation which is hard to get out of and you don't want to go out of your way to help the situation becuase you might feel embarresed etc.

LOADS of teens are the same.

If I was in your situation, i'd have a chat with an online adviser on Connexions Direct.
It's confidential, they don't know who you are and vise versa and you can ask for help!

http://www2.cxdirect.com/visitor/EntryPage.htm

Even if your worried about accessing it, just click it and then click off straight away if you get worried. Then atleast you know what it's like.