Questions about approaching a girl, etc.

[Astone]

I agree with the above posters. If you like a girl, be a MAN! Go up to her and just start talking. If she's not interested, then it's no big deal (like others have said), especially if you're never going to see her again. At least you'll know that nothing happened; imagine thinking about what COULD have happened if you didn't ask her. If she's interested you win, if she's not, you still win. You gain more experience and it'll be easier to confront the next girl. Good luck!

[FlyingJesus]

Whip it out

[BaybeeElin]

Just smile at her and say something like 'alright'
Try to look like a nice guy and not too forward.
You could try to start talking about something shes into, like, if she's on her phone you could say you like her phone(make sure it doesn't look like your intending to steal it though ! ), or if shes with her dog ask her what its name is etc.
Just go from there.
You don't have to ask for her phone number or anything straight away.
Oh and make sure you're the one who ends the conversation, it will make her want to get to know you more. You could finish of by saying.. 'Well I'l see you around'.

Yeah I know you only wanted to know how to start a conversation but I just couldn't help it

[RedStratocas]

Thanks! You helped alot!

Also, what if she tells me she has a boyfriend? what should i say? I'll feel like an idiot for going over and talking to her and acting like i like her and stuff lol

Edit: Also, i know i dont care what other people think.. i had a girlfriend and that lasted for like 4 days cause her parents were divorcing and then i was like "shes not my type" so yeaah. but when i was with her , i didnt care what anyone else did.. i was fixed on her. well, i noticed them, but you know what i mean.

it comes to you. depends how you do it, but unless the girl is a complete jerkface about it for whatever reason (in which case you shouldn't care what she thinks anyway) she wont be mad. if anything happy. girls are just like guys, they like being noticed and asked out. if a girl asked me out, i'd be thrilled despite the fact i'm in a great relationship right now. it's just another form of a compliment to both genders. it might be awkward if she has a boyfriend, but it's not a bad awkwardness. just say sorry and you didn't know and keep talking to her. its way better to approach and take the risk than to not do anything and spend the next few days/weeks wondering what really would have happened if you approached her.

and thats good. just remember its about the two of you. i've seen lots of couples go down the road of being puppets for everyone else.