It's all about the looks for me, if they're ugly I'd never date them. Personality is just a bonus.

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true that. i'll admit some people have it easier than others when it comes to looking good, but most people can look good if they just try. people who don't even try to look good, it says a lot about their personality.Yes, but you can do alot of things to change how you look.
Say you have a big nose, you just simply take the attention from your nose to another part, such as your hair. If you have nice hair, thats one of the first things you notice.
I wouldn't get with anyone who dosn't care about there looks. Everyone should make an attempt. Like I said, simple things can change your looks.
i.e. Frizzy hair, just simply straighten it and maybe add a few waves?
Another thing, add some make-up.
If you really want to look good, you can.
Sorry most of it dosn't make sence, a little tired
Yeah people can improve themselves, but if your ugly you always will be.
People can fake personalites, and people change, but so can our looks.
Some people don't grow old gracefully, or have damage done to there face.
I think its looks more because if all my friends had good looking boyfriends an I was walking around with a troll I'd feel uncomfortable.
Personality aswell, but people can change people, and everyones a ***** sometimes in there lives. It does matter though, talking to a wall isnt much fun.
Being honest and from past experience, looks will get you further than personality
Last edited by Soy; 04-07-2008 at 10:50 PM.
Looks for me really.
I would say I go for personality first. But if you're ugly, I wouldn't want to be dating an ugly person.
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Spot on really.I've said it before and I'll doubtless say it again
Looks + personality = girlfriend (or good mate who you secretly wish you could get with)
Looks + no personality = fun for a night every now and then
No looks + personality = a friend
No looks + no personality = just no
Needs to be a balance
The way I see it, everyone has certain expectations for looks, but personality is what seals the deal, so to speak. You can have a stunning looking boy/girl/Barkseh who may have a crap personality, and you will eventually be bored of them, unless your weird and like having nothing to talk about or like being shouted at for no reason, but if you have a boy/girl/Smiddy with good looks and a great personality (great meaning better than good) then you're onto a winner![]()
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short term / first attraction - looks
long term - personality
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i wouldnt go out with an ugly person...
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