Why did you chose to be gay?

[Monopoly]

Why would someone be brought up to love people of the same gender?
It's not like parents are going to bring up children by telling them to do people of the same gender.

Also, it can't be genetic or there would be no gays as gays aren't breeders.

no on is saying you're brought up to be gay, they're just saying that it depennds on how you were raised.

[no waiii]

How is it natural to be gay?

he is only 11 he woulnt know

[DrLacero]

I'm sure it's all down to chromozones. Tests on murderers have indicated that they have the same number and types of chromozones, tests on transsexuals have indicated the same thing, as well as pedophiles.

I'm going to stop you right there, of course they have the same number and no tests would be needed to prove this. All humans, past present and future have 46 chromosomes (that's 23 pairs). You may find exampled of beings with more or less depending on how far back in the evolutionary chain you count as human.

I think whether or not you are gay is due to nature and nurture, you may be exposed to less testosterone in your mother's womb (after your gender has been chosen), less testosterone would create a more feminine child. This alone could not be the deciding factor as there are feminine heterosexuals and masculine homosexuals so nurture must have a part too, how you are treated (By this I do not mean either homosexuals or homosexuals were treated badly). Testing the nature vs. nurture argument would be near impossible due to it requiring using newly born children as test subjects throughout their childhood and teens so I guess it's a futile debate. Oh well.

[BlueTango]

I watched an interesting program the other week and it talked in detail about how scientists have made 3 major links to thinking that people are born gay and they're 100% confident that within a few years they'll be able to prove it.

The first was based on your brain size. In every single gay man they'd ever tested, one side of the brain was slightly smalled than the other. Whereas with all the straight men they tested - they were the exact same size.

The second was finger size. If you're ring finger is longer than your index finger it means you were exposed to more testosterone when you were an embryo inside your mother. Testosterone is a hormone released in the male body. If your index finger is longer than your ring finger it means you were exposed to more eastrogen when you were an embryo - which is a hormone in the female body. Based on this they think that if your ring finger is longer than your index finger you're more likely to be straight and vice versa

The third is based on how many older brothers you have. They're researching the fact that the more older brothers you have the more likely you are to be gay - this is their most advanced theory so far.

[Hollyish]

Do you actually CHOOSE to be gay??


Cos i was having dis conversation with someone earlier and they said you don't...

I didn't understand lol

like he was saying that your just gay, yea just like that.. and i was like what so your saying your BORN gay??

:S I'm confused about it

p.s. i'm not gay

[benjamin]

i felt like a change rly

[Britvic]

i felt like a change rly

At last, someone giving a proper answer!

[TooClose]

People are gay because they like the same gender

blates got my husband in your sig though.

xox

[TooClose]

Do you actually CHOOSE to be gay??


Cos i was having dis conversation with someone earlier and they said you don't...

I didn't understand lol

like he was saying that your just gay, yea just like that.. and i was like what so your saying your BORN gay??

:S I'm confused about it

p.s. i'm not gay

Yes, you're born gay. Anybody that tries to tell you otherwise is ************ and doesn't know what theyre talking about.

Watch John Barrowman: The Making of Me. It proves that you're born with it as a genetic disfunction.

Edited by Hayd93 (Forum Super Moderator): Please do not double post.

[Imp!]

Nobody chooses =/ god I hate people like that