Parent problems.

Bouncing · 29-07-2008, 10:09 PM

Atm i just am really getting annoyed at my parents. lets start with my mum she like gets scared if i get in to a discussion with my dad unless he shouts at me which he barely ever does she gets too paranoid all the time about things starting arguments like with my dad and sisters and she like has literally like a fit ok its fine if shes trying to care but she like has a fit and starts on my sister about literally everything its so annoying. she just doesnt know how to control a family household well, i love her and everything its just its true and i cant stand it. she wont take any advice either she just wines and goes leave me alone go awaaay. and like my dad i cant say much about him because he is a great dad just like he wants meto try and be friends with these certain type of people and i really just dont like them n i can keep my distance happily without any problems but he just always says im making a mistake not trying to be friends with them even if i say they dont particually like me?! I have a discussion about something and the final answer is like deal with it, do well get your GCSE's and get it over with. but im not asking for an answer just a discussion just conversation?! I cant say this because he willl only take his opinion which i know i cant do much about. just i want to run away from all of this and build my own life which everyone say i shouldnt want to, i should enjoy school, when really i dont. I want my degree i want to attemp to do well in life and have a family. I know that sounds crazy but its just the way I am. Maybe theres no solution to my problem, and dont say sit down and talk it out but in my house thats not possible. So like im not depressed or anything just not satisfied im annoyed and frustrated. not depressed tho. what are your views on this. bet its "thats life mate"

e5 · 29-07-2008, 10:13 PM

I wouldn't call it life to be honest. The best thing you could do is talk to your sister and plan to do something big with your family, or like give them something that will light up their faces, this could be the start from bringing your family closer, and give them the feeling that you're happy, which hopefully in return, will make them happy and then if they're happy and their's and your life, everything should pan out right for you. I haven't had experience in this, so I just giving advice i'd hope to take and that I'd hope to work

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VPSwow · 29-07-2008, 10:16 PM

My mum winges a lot also. Gets anoying but thats part and parcel of living with them. Just keep on preying untill you move out. Not really good advice but all i can give im afraid.

Bouncing · 29-07-2008, 10:58 PM

tbh both good advice but second one seems the best haha, my mum does like to think were all close and we kinda are just were not normal cba explaining now just guess ill have to wait till i move out!

e5 · 29-07-2008, 10:59 PM

My mum can moan alot but she can be alright, sometimes hard to tell what mood she'll be in, but usually can tell. It's weird lol but I tried to give you advice to help from your point of view.

night anywayyyyyyy

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