Confused

[Pyroka]

I'm so confused

RIGHT Like... theres a girl right, I'm seeing in Scotland at the end of January and shes so so soossososososoos nice, shes my ex and everything but we lost contact for a few months. She's still single, and we never really said, "Enough is enough" so I have no idea what she thinks of me, whether I'm a **** for not trying to get back in contact with her until like a month ago. We've been talking alot, and same as always a pleasure to talk to...

BUT I just don't know what she thinks of me, I'm throwing around these compliments about how pretty she is and everything, and its like it falls on false ears! The occasion compliment gets me an "Aww you're sweet" but any girl can say that, it doesn't mean they're gagging for it y'know? I rly have no idea what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I mean I dunno if she likes me or not still, she's never said anything since we got back in contact about her still liking me or anything, and its annoying as it's just playing the guessing game. I like someone else though in work, which is just pure shocking of me but if she doesn't like me then I'm going to go for this other girl since she's also really approachable (like my ex, they're pretty similiar lol). But thats a ******* thing to do aint it, so what the hell should I DO?!

What if she just considers us as friends, I'll look such a ****.


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[camera]

ask her straight up. dont beat around the bush :S

[leah]

do what zah said, Just say... what do you think of me?

[Cyndia]

Yeah I agree when the two above posts. Because its either you ask and find out one way or another, or you dont ask and you keep on being undecisive and potentially miss out on a good relationship. The worst that can happen is she'll say she isn't into you anymore, which would suck, but at least you have the other girl as your backup to go after if the first one doesn't work out.

[FlyingJesus]

Saying you're sweet rather than flirting back isn't a good sign I'm afraid. She may well be wanting someone a bit more local, but I certainly suggest giving her the good old when you go see her, see how it goes from there

[leah]

"the good old" LOL
and yeh as much as it pains me to say it... tom is right.
Id never say to a guy I liked that he was so sweet.
Well not if he complimented me anyways

[MrGazet]

ask her what he thinks of u
make d first step
but if she says that 'we're just mates'
then maybe u shud go to the girl at ur work
good luck buddy!

[BlueEyedSarah]

I think it sounds like she is still a little bit angry because you both lost contact so she still might be thinking it will happen again so she is not getting her hopes up. I thin the best thing to do is to ask her how she feels about you as you do not want to have faulse hopes on a girl who is not interested in you or putting in any effort.

[Immenseman]

Doesn't sound like she's that interested, try your luck with the girl from work.

[Kardan]

Go for Rebecca, would she really ask you to go up to motherwell if you were just friends? Of course, if it doesn't work out you could never speak to her again and just go for the girl at New Look.