have or would you ever forgive your partner for cheating?

[9y]

I have in the past but yes, future decisions may be different.

[FlyingJesus]

i have before but then decided revenge was wayyy better than forgiving!

Init getting with a one-eared pikey will make ANYONE sorry

[sim]

its an interesting topic, and im not sure where I stand on it, something currently being discussed with the bf xoxoxo

[@K]

I did one girlfriend, I was young, dumb and in love, but it still didn't work out anyway lol.

[JACKTARD]

I would want to hate them forever and act like i hate them forever.

whether i actually did wouldnt matter if they cheated on me

[NIKKEE]

No, I really wouldn't ever. I know that once a cheater always a cheater, and I know myself that I'd never be able to trust him again, even if I tried, there wouldn't be much point in trying cause I'd hate to live like a paranoid wreck.
Anyone I've ever known who has cheated on someone has always done it again, or cheated on another partner, if someone thinks you're letting them away with it, then they'll do it again. I really think cheating is the most pathetic thing anyone can do, it's horrible.

[Lost]

If i got cheated on i'd just leave them, it's as simple as that. Why bother forgiving someone that you cannot trust? They've ended that trust by sleeping with someone else while in a relationship (in my books i think you have to be in a relationship to actually get cheated on/cheat on someone). I think people are kidding themselves quite frankly if they've been cheated on but forgive them because they're in "love" and that they're convinced they will not do it again. Forgiving that person will most likely result in them thinking that they can do whatever they want because you'll forgive them; leading them to cheat on you again or go behind your back in some way. Could you really tell your children that mummy/daddy cheated on you? Not only would I be embarrassed and ashamed (if i got cheated on and actually let them stay with me), but I'd also probably grow this massive paranoid bubble where I think my boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on me (i'm not speaking about me, i'm speaking about anyone). I wouldn't like to live the rest of my life in that relationship always up at night wondering what he/she is doing or everytime he/she gets a text/phonecall I would be so curious to ask who it was and why they're phoning :S. Not only would it mess up the relationship in so many ways but it would also make you're life pretty crap, and you'd grow to learn deep down that you could never trust anyone, and your children (assuming people have children and are like this) will most likely to see this terrible relationship because they see it the best, many people underestimate children I think.

Bottom line is, in my opinion, if someone cheated, that would be it. They'd need to learn a lesson in not to cheat again by dumping them, if you don't dump them then they'll just think it's ok and do it again. :S

[Nxrissa]

Why should i. i wouldnt.

[FlyingJesus]

I really think cheating is the most pathetic thing anyone can do, it's horrible.

It's bare funny tbh

[NIKKEE]

It's bare funny tbh

It ruins families, what a sad attitude.