i need help :)

[Hecktix]

is that your girlfriend?!?!
ahh first lad doesn't give up even when i say i'm not interested, he's still texting me but he's probably texting loads of other girls aswell.
second guy is just creepy now, he's gotten way too obsessed because one girl has took interest in him, it's really like a lot of guys on here! i guess i won't feel as bad if i hurt him because it'll serve him right, or i could try put the attention onto some other girl in the bus who apparently talks about him all the time, can't see why she would though.

well players go with players, right? so maybe he is the best match ahhh
afterall, i don't want a relationship especially if i'm not totally into them. i'm never going to learn lol

I think you could benefit from dipping your toes into the relationship thing, especially if you get on with this guy cause that's what's most important in a relationship - the friendship so i dunno maybe if you gave it a try you may find you actually like the relationship thing, I think i've read somewhere or you said to me once you'd only had like one serious boyfriend? Well you clearly don't have much experience of relationships (tbh that could even have been a bad experience???) so maybe if you experimented a little you could find what makes you happy.

If it doesn't work then just get back on your feet and continue doing what you do atm or w/e

[Charz777]

is that your girlfriend?!?!

There's no hiding in this world.

[Kardan]

and continue doing what you do atm or w/e

*Cough* Sure Jen won't mind that... JIGGY JIGGY.

[Hecktix]

*Cough* Sure Jen won't mind that... JIGGY JIGGY.

You have no idea how long I pondered over how to word that part!!

[buttons]

First dude sounds like he's going for whatever he can get his dirty hands on... Maybe the girl that talks to the second dude is doing what you were doing to him?

most likely but unfortunately that's the kind i DO go for, not who i'd prefer but it's hard to get out the cycle!

I think you could benefit from dipping your toes into the relationship thing, especially if you get on with this guy cause that's what's most important in a relationship - the friendship so i dunno maybe if you gave it a try you may find you actually like the relationship thing, I think i've read somewhere or you said to me once you'd only had like one serious boyfriend? Well you clearly don't have much experience of relationships (tbh that could even have been a bad experience???) so maybe if you experimented a little you could find what makes you happy.

If it doesn't work then just get back on your feet and continue doing what you do atm or w/e

yup it's definitely bad experiences! i've had 2 "serious" ones that've ended bad and i'm scared it turns out like that again.
i don't think i'm ready for a relationship anyway, weirdly enough i actually need a guy who'll keep me "under the thumb" otherwise i'll just take advantage, 'forget' i have a boyfriend and walk all over them. that's how i see it with the third guy and then it'd definitely ruin the friendship. i wouldn't say i'm a player but if i could get away with anything i would try it..

[Hecktix]

most likely but unfortunately that's the kind i DO go for, not who i'd prefer but it's hard to get out the cycle!

yup it's definitely bad experiences! i've had 2 "serious" ones that've ended bad and i'm scared it turns out like that again.
i don't think i'm ready for a relationship anyway, weirdly enough i actually need a guy who'll keep me "under the thumb" otherwise i'll just take advantage, 'forget' i have a boyfriend and walk all over them. that's how i see it with the third guy and then it'd definitely ruin the friendship. i wouldn't say i'm a player but if i could get away with anything i would try it..

tbh jen I just think you're being lazy not getting "out of the cycle"

you should try, a boyfriend can also keep you "under the thumb" if that's what you want, you shouldn't let bad experiences but you off. I've had a few but tbh it just makes me want to succeed with things more rather than **** something else up.

I too have only had 2 serious relationships which lasted some time (1 year 2 months and 7 months) and you know how badly 1 of them ended!!!! And the other was quite upsetting/argumental but yeah I'm not scared, well I am, but I try to face my fears.

[Kardan]

There's no hiding in this world.

Err... yeah Jen. If you like the type of the first guy, go for it, but he sounds like the sort of guy that wouldn't give a damn if he saw another girl behind your back.

[FlyingJesus]

She's like 12 or something don't y'all be telling her to settle down, she can take as many boys on the waltzer as she likes until she's like 50

[Hecktix]

She's like 12 or something don't y'all be telling her to settle down, she can take as many boys on the waltzer as she likes until she's like 50

that's quite a lot for a 12 year old tom!!

i love your philosophy.

Some of these relationships threads are funny as the thread starter usually knows the answer

good luck anyway jennifer.

[Laggings]

another guy on our bus had a bet with his friend that he couldn't "pull" a girl before christmas (he's a bit of a geek, nearly 18 + he's never had a gf or touched alcohol), i just played along with his friends chatting him up all like "well my birthdays before christmas ". only reason i really sat with him on the bus was because i liked one of his friends so i could easily talk to him there and had something to make conversation with then realised he wasn't all that he cracked up to be but that's a diff story.... so yee i'm starting to feel awkward with this whole thing though now, at first i couldn't get him to talk to me but now i can't get him away ... i did say "i hope you're not taking this serious" but i think it's a bit too late for that :/ again i have no idea how to tell him it's just a joke without looking like a **** but ye i probably already do....

The sad sad sad thing here is, if you changed the age on this person, he's almost an exact description of me -cries irl

Don't be mean to him, it's probably not a joke for him