Whats a good way to break up?

[Cyndia]

So I've been dating this guy for about 3 months, and I've slowly come to realize that I'm really just not that into him. He's crazy about me since I'm his first really major girlfriend, but idk.. He was kind of a rebound relationship I think, since I got out of a 2 year relationship a couple months ago, even though I honestly didn't go into it with that intention. Anyway, I don't know how to go about breaking up with him! He lives next door to me in my dorm at uni so I'm going to be seeing him every day for rest of the school year. I don't want it to be awkward, but I don't know how to let him down easily without really hurting his feelings. Normally it's no problem since I would usually not run into the guy much after a break up, but this is different since we live right by each other. Any suggestions?

[Blinger$]

Say it isn't working. Or refuse any sexual stuff with him, he is bound to give up in the end.

[Cyndia]

Hahaha that's true. Hooking up with him would probably just send him the wrong message anyway..

[GarysLovers]

Well I'm a boy and if a girl wanted to break up with me I'd want her just to come out with it.

[Bun]

be very careful. if you're his first proper girlfriend he's going to take it really really hard. just tell him the normal stuff, don't fancy a relationship, not you it's him etc etc.. oh and he might take it easier if you offer him the friends with benefits route.

[FlyingJesus]

tbh I'd get with one of his roommates if any are good looking. You win all round that way

[Smits]

I'm male. If a girl wanted to break up with me i'd want her to tell me straight, not make up stupid reasons, and then i'd respect that and be willing to stay friends. I'd call her my blast from the past.

[Meanies]

"It's not you, it's me"

Just tell him straight up and don't beat around the bush (no pun intended)

[Meree.]

Well since it's his first really propper relationship, try your best to go easy on him. Just pull him aside and say can I talk to you for a minute. Then tell him straight. Say he's a nice guy (and add whatevers nice about him) but tell him you've come to realise that you don't think of him in a boyfriend kind of way, and that you'd rather be friends instead. That's just an idea. Make sure you don't just dump it on him and then walk away.

Hope this helps.

[iAdam]

It isn't working, not worth it, Your just not that into him? A variety of ways that would all work