What does it mean when..

[mike475]

its natural. like if my ex (broke up last week after 6 and a half months) had something going on with someone else, it would still get to me. even though i've got on 5 people and stuff since.

just remember all the reasons why you broke up, how much of a downer he was. it'll take time, it always does. soon enough you'll look back on this topic and think how silly you were.

you'll be okay :]

[Black_Apalachi]

Would you say you were in love? I ask this because I have my own personal experience very similar to what you are experiencing now...

I was with my ex boyfriend for over a year altogether. We split up around a month or so ago now. I was very much in love with him, and to a certain extent I still am now and always will be. However I am over him. I can safely say that I have gone past the stages of wanting him back etc etc. Nevertheless, the idea of him going out and getting with other people and things hurts me... even though I've got with plenty of people since we've split up.
When you're with someone, and you become very much attached to that person it is very difficult to not feel weird about things like that. Even if you actually hate that person. For example, my friend was with someone for around 2 years and he cheated on her. When he found a new partner, she was absolutely devastated despite the fact she didn't want to be with him and actually wanted to kill him.

It's totally normal, and in time as your life moves on it will get easier. Particularly when the contact between you both becomes less and less .

Similar example to Garion's. Two of my mates were together from when they were about 13 until 18 or 19 when the lad found some other lads in the girl's bed (not with her, but it all kicked off and they broke up) anyway he hated her and still told me he hated her after they'd both been with new people but he was also really pissed off about her being with another guy. They broke up just under a year ago now I think and he's only recently told me that he's not bothered about her or her bf any more. So yeah I think some feelings go on for while even though you don't want to be with them any more but over time it gets easier.

[e5]

Deep down you'll still like her but you're telling yourself you don't because you want to move on but you're finding it hard, because she once was yours and now seeing her with other lads kind of hurts you =/.

[Anamations]

I Dont think it means you have feelings for them i think it just means your a tad jelous and you feel like i had that once and i was in your possition ( meanningg the girl hes flirting with)

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