Have you ever been in love?

[luce]

yeah I have but we were never together and he was so much older then me but i loved him in a non sexual way but he has just moved to scotland with his wife but we talked for hours and hours everyday and we e-mail all the time. so i don't know if this is the type of love you are talking about LOL but it was because i miss him more then i have ever missed any of my boyfriends or any friend that i have had to leave.

erm and on the boyfriend front yeah i said i was but now i look back i don't think it was it could have been but i don't know we're on and off to muc to fall in love i reckon

[Jay.]

I am in love.

[LuketheDuke]

have been for 4 years no joke, why else would a teen romance last so long if it wasnt the real thing?

ive wrecked it and gotta live with it now, painful.

[leah]

how do you know oli?! define love for me... i defo haven't ever been in love, not even close. obviously i love my family but you get me. a lot of my buddiez have been like "im in love" and then they realise they're not lol

i hope tobias isn't

I always see love as feelings towards people you like in any manner, you can love someone but in different ways, obviously.

But here we are talking about being in love, the girl I was completely in love with I fell for a longggg time before we got together, we never really realised what it was, we just had a mutual care for eachother to start with which became quite developed when we both helped eachother through very hard situations. I had quite a dramatic break up in July 2008 and this girl was there for me then, I was an absolute mess but she'd text me every day asking me how I was etc, just being a good friend, then we fell for eachother in the "lust" sort of way, she was always an attractive girl but Id been with my girlfriend for over a year but after she helped me through that we became very attracted to eachother and one thing led to another, we were only together 5 months when in the end we both made silly mistakes.

One of my strongest beliefs about love is that you never truly fall out of it, this particular girl ended up turning her back on me for a few months and it absolutely killed me. It did us good though because we had started arguing a lot and stuff and forgotten about our feelings really. Some of the stuff she did was pretty harsh and all my friends hate the fact I talk to her again, but I'd still do pretty much anything for that girl & she'd still do pretty much anything for me, if we can get through what happened (which I won't divulge) and still care for eachother after it as much as we cared going into it (just without all the other feelings a relationship requires), I think that one could say we were in love at our peak.

aw was that kate? I was a well big help 2k10

When you're in a relationship it's easy to think you are, and if you're lucky that feeling stays and all goes well etc etc but I think the real test is if you do break up how you look back at it (not right away of course, after time). I'd say I'm lucky enough to have experienced what I'd call true love and I still believe that's what it was 3 years after.. damn I'm old lol.. but it really was just the once. Been others who I thought I loved and maybe did but wasn't really in love with, which is a massive difference even if it is only one you can see with hindsight

e m a ?

yeah I have but we were never together and he was so much older then me but i loved him in a non sexual way but he has just moved to scotland with his wife but we talked for hours and hours everyday and we e-mail all the time. so i don't know if this is the type of love you are talking about LOL but it was because i miss him more then i have ever missed any of my boyfriends or any friend that i have had to leave.

erm and on the boyfriend front yeah i said i was but now i look back i don't think it was it could have been but i don't know we're on and off to muc to fall in love i reckon

mr hughes? LOL

I am in love.

kali

hmm this is a hard one, because it's hard to know what "love" actually is, going by what others in this thread have said I believe so, but I think it's hard to completely tell at this age being less experienced.

[Nixt]

Yeah, just once. Realised I was in love because he was actually ugly and a **** and yet I stayed with him and fought to be with him constantly. But yeah seriously you kinda just know you have this immense feeling and you just can't appreciate living with out them.

[Glitter]

I don't think i have tbf.. infatuation yes.. but love, probably not.

[Blinger1]

I was. I could imagine baby blingers with her.

[Bun]

yeah i'm in love, it's really hard to describe though.

[leah]

Yeah, just once. Realised I was in love because he was actually ugly and a **** and yet I stayed with him and fought to be with him constantly. But yeah seriously you kinda just know you have this immense feeling and you just can't appreciate living with out them.

and when I told you he was a mong you had a go at me and now you can actually admit it, i'm proud of you !

Yeah love is hard to describe ^

[Hiro]

No. Infatuation, yes. Love, No.