Yeah, well my granddad jimmy died early hours in the morning. But the thing is, i'm not close to him or my dads side of the family. I think i only seen him like 3 times. The only memory i have of him is him being lazy. In bed watching tv, was never close to him, but i don't really feel for his death. But i might be asked to carry his coffin, but i don't want to. I didn't cry or anything when i found out. As he was never really a granddad the way i see it.
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24-07-2010, 11:10 AM #1
Granddad dead,
Last edited by Nicola; 24-07-2010 at 12:41 PM.
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You don't get to choose your family, carry his coffin - you might regret not doing so one day.
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I agree with this. Family is family
Originally Posted by Mkuu
Sorry to hear about your loss!
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24-07-2010, 11:24 AM #4
I agree, you might regret it! I think you should carry it Originally Posted by Mkuu
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nah it aint a bad thing mate. was the same with my grandma (great nan). & i used to see her like every 2 weeks.
i just never felt close to her.
and just say you don't wanna carry the coffin. people will understand. dont have to do anything you dont wanna at a funeral.
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24-07-2010, 12:58 PM #6
I also agree with this. He's still part of your family, and you might regret it if you don't. I think you should carry it Originally Posted by Mkuu
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24-07-2010, 04:10 PM #7
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he might have left u money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm at a point in my life where I don't care if you like me or you don't. If you like me, cool. If you don't, meh.
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24-07-2010, 05:05 PM #8
Nah, He probably forgot about me. Thank god, i haven't been asked to carry his coffin though. Originally Posted by Metric1
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24-07-2010, 05:28 PM #9
Well I sure you will be there to support any family who were closer to him. Just because he was your Grandad doesn't automatically mean you will grieve for him. You would have to have quite a longstanding emotional attachment to do that. Originally Posted by Stexual:
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25-07-2010, 09:28 AM #10
I agree, you can't choose your family! You will probably regret it and not forgive yourself for not doing it. Originally Posted by Mkuu
I'm sorry for your loss
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