Bullying.

[tylermunjkt]

when i see tylers [ pixel ] face, theres not a thing that i would change, boy ur amazin, just the way u r
there ya go tyler xx

---------- Post added 28-01-2011 at 10:50 PM ----------

when i see tylers [ pixel ] face, theres not a thing that i would change, boy ur amazin, just the way u r
there ya go tyler xx

Thankk yaaa

[Firework.]

love you too markyyyy xxxx
and no problem, it posted it twice cause its cool. xx

[dogboy123]

People used to call me gay when i used to chill with the girs but I think once you get further into the year that people start not giving a **** and who you hang around with is up to you, if you want to chill with them then do.

[Jsoh]

I was bullied when I was your age too. When I was getting bullied at the time, the best thing to do is write down EVERYTHING that's been happening (because it's difficult to actually say it to someone) then when the person crosses the line or if they already have, give the letter to your parents.

[dbgtz]

For #1 remember that it's only bullying if it is consistent, once is not bullying but is just a split second of hitting or w/e

#2 its not jealousy, because there is a guy in my year who is like that and he is often seen as gay but never like, taunted for it. I don't see why you are if you have a girlfriend. I think at that age it will be like that but as you get older tbh no one really cares who you hang out with. However I do find it odd if a guy 99.9% of the time is spent hanging out with only girls.

[ben]

just ignore him and dont go near him np

[Slowpoke]

I hate to say it mate but thats typical of years 7-9. Everyone and everything is described as gay and a lot of kids attempt to pick on others to make them feel good about themselves and look "cool" infront of others. However, you'll notice that as you progress through high school that people mature quite quickly

However I do find it odd if a guy 99.9% of the time is spent hanging out with only girls.

Why?

[AgnesIO]

Lool - people are calling you gay for hanging around with the opposite sex. Right.

It is typical of that sort of age range, people trying to impress their mates, but as Slowpoke said people grow up etc - strangely I said to a mate the other day; "I stopped caring whether what I did was cool or not when I was 13". There was this one person who I used to hate (mutual feelings), not sure why he disliked me - probably because I didn't let him wind me up - but now I am friends with him - he just suddenly started not being a ****.

[Moh]

Meh, I used to get called gay in general ^_^

From the sounds of things, this bully has problems of his own and is taking it out on you. Schools are becoming more and more secure now and I presume that your school will have CCTV all over. So if he does do anything again, try and move in sight of the CCTV (and don't provoke him on the CCTV). You can then go to your head of year, report him and you'll have the CCTV footage to back you up, and the school will have to do something.

If they call you gay for hanging around girls, turn around and ask them how is hanging around with girls gay opposes to hanging around with a load of guys..

[Catzsy]

Everybody has different thresholds and abilities to cope than others. Some are hardened at an earlier age. If you feel you are being bullied then you should take action as you have. As you grow older then it is easier to cope with. It can sometimes lead to the 'bullied' becoming bullys themselves which I guess is a coping strategy but not one to be recommended.
There are many sites around to help with coping mechanisms. Here is one:
http://www.kidpower.org/resources/ar...FQEOfAod6x385g
The old cliche though ' a problem shared is a problem halved' so just by posting the thread it may have helped you which is one of the wonders of the Habbox Forum Community, I guess!