Is it rly bad?

[Jake]

ha yh not like been together for 13 months

all sorted now anyway its over

I'd only think it was bad if it got serious before you wanting to dump them.

[Eoin247]

Jesus, there are a lot of unfeeling people here.


Would you like to be dumped by text? Think about it, it would be really humiliating. Say it to them in person. If you don't have the guts to do that then good luck succeeding in life because you'll need it.

[FlyingJesus]

Would you like to be dumped by text?

Well no but there are lots of things I'd do that I wouldn't like done to me

[beth]

Jesus, there are a lot of unfeeling people here.


Would you like to be dumped by text? Think about it, it would be really humiliating. Say it to them in person. If you don't have the guts to do that then good luck succeeding in life because you'll need it.

if i'm gonna be dumped, i'd rather they did it instantly than string me on til they next saw me. whether it's written or spoken, a word is just a word.

[Sian]

to be honest I hate the dumping conversation. If someone was dumping me I couldn't stand being in the same room with them whilst they do it. Though if it had been a serious relationship I'd try my best to do it face to face.

[Eoin247]

if i'm gonna be dumped, i'd rather they did it instantly than string me on til they next saw me. whether it's written or spoken, a word is just a word.

Surely if they are your boyfriend/girlfriend anyway, it's hardly going to be a long time before they next see you. There are meanings behind words so a word is not just simply a word.

[beth]

Surely if they are your boyfriend/girlfriend anyway, it's hardly going to be a long time before they next see you. There are meanings behind words so a word is not just simply a word.

the meaning behind a word is not gonna change just because someone is standing infront of me as opposed to texting me. actually, no it would because people are less likely to be truthful when they're faced with you head on.

[Jessicrawrr]

wouldn't like to be dumped face to face, it'd be really humiliating, I wouldn't like to do it to someones face either, unless it got really serious.

[Narnat,]

I wouldn't say it's initially bad but tbh it seems like a very petty way to break up with someone.

[brandon]

Yeah breaking up over text is a pretty cowardly thing to do.. dignified people break up over voice mail