Everybody has flaws

[Kyle]

You don't know the circumstances, it infuriates me when people say things such as 'OMG LOL LOOK A FAT PERSON THEY JUST DONT STOP EATING CAKES', you're instantly judging someone, you don't know what it is that makes richie a bigger guy than us, saying that he can't control what he eats is really insensitive.

Not being able to control what you eat is the only reason you're going to be fat... :S This thread is for people to point out their own insecurities/flaws/imperfections; not for us to write about what we would consider them to be on other people. If somebody is happy to address some problems they have -- with their body, personality or otherwise -- it can't be a bad thing.

[Catzsy]

if being fat makes you who you are then you must be a pretty lame person.

catszy, i really dunno how you can say being fat isn't a flaw? it's a health risk for one. i hate how people try and make out being fat is okay because more people are indulging themselves nowadays, it's still just as unhealthy and bad for you.


o/t i have no flaws :S

Try reading the definition above. A flaw is a weakness in somebody's charactor not physical appearance. If he had said I eat too much for my own good then that would be different as it is a weakness in his will power. Looks like your flaw is that you think you are perfect which is probably is flaw in itself.

@ Niamh

lso you seemed to have skipped a definition from the oxford dictionary
a mark , blemish, or other imperfection which mars a substance or object:a flaw in the glass
It is an imperfectiion.

That is related to an object or substance not a person.

[buttons]

i love when people say they have no flaws, it sounds so insecure. i used to do the same

ummm some people say "you're TOO honest/upfront" to me but i wouldn't be me if i wasn't. i sometimes get told to change it, especially by my friends but i know if i do i won't be liked as much. & they wouldn't get the free drinks that they do! i don't think it's a flaw cause i'm not rude about it plus i'm a crappy liar so being honest is just freeing.


otherwise my flaw is probably that i try too hard to change my own 'flaws' when i should accept myself & also that i sometimes focus only on other's flaws and not the good parts.

[HotelUser]

If generally awful can be a flaw then that's my flaw but if not then mine would probably be communicating and understanding people properly. I wish I was better at that.

[Shar]

I can make a big list of flaws, but I'll choose not to because we'll be here forever. I'm sure many people think like that because no ones really entirely happy with who/how they are, however I don't think having flaws is a bad thing as long as you can accept them and then try and overcome it if you can.
For example, one of my major flaws is that I lack confidence, however I try really hard to boost my confidence and over the years I think I'm getting quite better.

[Shoe]

In my opinion I have loads of flaws and I know someone on this forum who will no boubt agree with me on like every single one I put on here. :/

Firstly im not thin enough... I mean I know I can become thinner as I once was not so long ago, so I really just need to try harder at this.
Im very clingy and I wish I wasnt I hate to think I have been forgotten about by my boyfriend.
Im kinda psycho about a certain thing which im not saying on here but yehh.. This needs to change and I am trying.
I get upset to easily about certain things :/
I have a tendancy to just say things how they are despite the consiquences of people becoming upset by what I have done or said.
I love an argument as long as its not with my boyfriend. Girls bitcing LOVE IT.
I dont tend to think about things, I just jump to conclusions and go off with it. :/

I also wish I was a generally better person and wish I could make people happier :/

Yehh thats just a few there... :/

[Narnat,]

I think of people before myself way too much and I take on other peoples problems.

[Rozi]

I try as hard as possible to ignore physical flaws, I've spent far too much time in the past dwelling on things that are insignificant and effected me far too much so I've tried to completely get over being self concious about my physical appearance.

However I have many character flaws. I have many 'leo' flaws (my starsign). I am fairly self-absorbed and do have a bit of a superiority complex. I wouldn't say I crave attention but I do hate being ignored or under-appreciated. I think this about sums it up:

Leo are warm of spirit, eager for action and are driven by a desire to be loved for what you bring to others. Leo are a magnanimous leader and a faithful servant. Once scorned in love, however, Leo will withdraw your affections and the light, once brilliant, can go cold.

except for the faithful servant, I'm too lazy for that: one of my worse flaws.


of course there are thousands more but I cba to think of them

[kuzkasate]

My main one is probably that I am slightly too thin, but it's not really a flaw and I am gaining more weight, so really its something that can be changed if I put my mind to it.