Sex before marriage

[Jssy]

my mums aware i'm sexually active my dad would murder me though lol

I don't think anybody needed to know.

[-:Undertaker:-]

For the most part, those who engage in sex before marriage who contract STDS/HIV or become pregnant, they bring it upon themselves.

If you see a bottomless pit, you don't jump in it unless you are absolutely sure where the bottom is - and even then you might not.

[MKR&*42]

I'm a Christian so Yes I believe in celibacy - quite a few people I know believe in it, they wear an "abstinence ring" to show they won't have sex before marriage.

I'm actually of A-sexuality though, which means I am not sexually attracted to anything, man , woman , animals etc. and I never have been sexually attracted to someone. A-sexuality, is natural - you don't force yourself to refrain from sex unlike celibacy.

So I never have to worry about sex :3 ( that could change though - I'm only 15 ).

[Judas]

For the most part, those who engage in sex before marriage who contract STDS/HIV or become pregnant, they bring it upon themselves.

If you see a bottomless pit, you don't jump in it unless you are absolutely sure where the bottom is - and even then you might not.

If I got in bed with someone and saw a bottomless pit I wouldn't want to jump in I must say.

[iLogan]

I agree with sex before marriage

[Judas]

I agree with sex before marriage

same

sex is a gift, it would be rude to not use it

[DPS]

I've been active since i was in my early teens, im not sure what my mother would have said if she found out, probs not much as im a guy, diffrent when your a girl i suppose.

[Jordy]

I'm a Christian so Yes I believe in celibacy - quite a few people I know believe in it, they wear an "abstinence ring" to show they won't have sex before marriage.

I'm actually of A-sexuality though, which means I am not sexually attracted to anything, man , woman , animals etc. and I never have been sexually attracted to someone. A-sexuality, is natural - you don't force yourself to refrain from sex unlike celibacy.

So I never have to worry about sex :3 ( that could change though - I'm only 15 ).

Asexuality is very rare and seeing as you've not finished puberty at 15, it's quite likely you will eventually find some sexual desires. Plus being asexual doesn't mean you won't have sex, it simply means you've not much attraction to it. If you were in a relationship/marriage with someone who wasn't asexual, it's quite likely you'd have to engage in sex just to keep things going even if you gained little from the experience.

I still think being asexual would be ideal though, I don't want to sound like someone preaching "without religion everything would be peaceful", without a desire for sex I think things would be very different and probably better (although it's questionable how the human race would continue!)

[beth]

i'm all for sex before marriage, sex is not the be all and end all of 'love', sex is a bodily function. it's the process of reproduction.

not sure where it came to be a symbol of 'love' but it's not really is it. i enjoy sex but generally it's not the most romantic thing in the world, it's not always the greatest thing. don't get me wrong, it can be fantastic. but i'd rather not 'use' sex as proving how i fully love someone. i'd rather give them an intelligent description or something. idk.

sex does not equal love, and love does not equal sex.

[velvet]

i'm all for sex before marriage, sex is not the be all and end all of 'love', sex is a bodily function. it's the process of reproduction.

not sure where it came to be a symbol of 'love' but it's not really is it. i enjoy sex but generally it's not the most romantic thing in the world, it's not always the greatest thing. don't get me wrong, it can be fantastic. but i'd rather not 'use' sex as proving how i fully love someone. i'd rather give them an intelligent description or something. idk.

sex does not equal love, and love does not equal sex.

this, pretty much. sex is a part of a relationship, and to not explore that before committing yourself to someone forever is idiotic in my opinion.

however personally, i wouldn't sleep with someone who i didn't see a future with.