Sex before marriage

[-:Undertaker:-]

I'm so glad you agree.

On the other hand I couldn't care less what you think of my attitude towards anything, there's nothing wrong with what I said and if you don't like it, then consider evaluating your priorities.

The argument that sex only exists for reproduction is bull anyway, if that is the case then why are we one of two (I think?) species that get pleasure from sex...? If it wasn't supposed to be an enjoyable experience then it just wouldn't be.

Nobody has made that argument as far as i'm aware, i'm not even making the argument for 'no sex before marriage' to always be followed - I simply state that we should be a bit more sceptical about sex and have a bit more self-respect for ourselves and others.

As opposed to seeking to act like animals.

[Judas]

Nobody has made that argument as far as i'm aware, i'm not even making the argument for 'no sex before marriage' to always be followed - I simply state that we should be a bit more sceptical about sex and have a bit more self-respect for ourselves and others.

As opposed to seeking to act like animals.

http://www.habboxforum.com/showthrea...06#post7275906 - I don't know if it has been a point of discussion before that as I can't be bothered to read through 8 pages

And yes I agree but that has nothing to do with marriage, does it? I honestly don't see what's wrong with having sex with multiple people as long as you're sensible about it?

Funny you should say we shouldn't act like animals when animals are the ones that only have sex to reproduce lolz.

[-:Undertaker:-]

http://www.habboxforum.com/showthrea...06#post7275906 - I don't know if it has been a point of discussion before that as I can't be bothered to read through 8 pages

And yes I agree but that has nothing to do with marriage, does it? I honestly don't see what's wrong with having sex with multiple people as long as you're sensible about it?

Nor do I, but one night stands and so forth? I look down on them, as we should do.

Funny you should say we shouldn't act like animals when animals are the ones that only have sex to reproduce lolz.

Well i'm not making that argument concerning reproduction so there's no irony at all on my part.

[Judas]

Nor do I, but one night stands and so forth? I look down on them, as we should do.

Well i'm not making that argument concerning reproduction so there's no irony at all on my part.

But why do you have a right to look down on people who choose
to do that and are just enjoying themselves? As long as they are using protection and not in relationships what is the problem? I understand it's not for some people, I wouldn't go out every weekend and sleep with any random person, but some people choose to do that and if they want to do that it's none of my business or yours.

And I didn't say it was ironic on your part, just making the point.

[-:Undertaker:-]

But why do you have a right to look down on people who choose
to do that and are just enjoying themselves? As long as they are using protection and not in relationships what is the problem? I understand it's not for some people, I wouldn't go out every weekend and sleep with any random person, but some people choose to do that and if they want to do that it's none of my business or yours.

And I didn't say it was ironic on your part, just making the point.

I'm a libertarian, I agree its none of my business or that of any government.

But I still view it in a negative way, I think we should have respect for ourselves and one another concerning sex.

[Judas]

I'm a libertarian, I agree its none of my business or that of any government.

But I still view it in a negative way, I think we should have respect for ourselves and one another concerning sex.

What would you define as having respect for yourself concerning sex?

[-:Undertaker:-]

What would you define as having respect for yourself concerning sex?

Not sleeping around, not going out looking for sex, not having the attitude that we should just have sex, talk about sex and go out looking for sex purely because 'its natural' or 'is good' - anything other than that comes across to me as somebody who is shallow and has little self-respect.

[Judas]

Not sleeping around, not going out looking for sex, not having the attitude that we should just have sex, talk about sex and go out looking for sex purely because 'its natural' or 'is good' - anything other than that comes across to me as somebody who is shallow and has little self-respect.

See, I don't see what's wrong with sleeping around. I agree we shouldn't treat it as "just having sex" so casually, but I think it can be a casual thing and if you want to have sex with someone then why not?

I think that when people like you in situations like this say someone has no respect for themselves, it's just because that person isn't acting in the way that you want them to. If you wish to have sex with someone, it's your decision and no one else's. Respect has nothing to do with it unless you're just banging everyone that moves when you haven't even really met the person or just fancy a bit of sex.

And I don't see what's wrong with having sex because "it's good" ..... Why else lol

[-:Undertaker:-]

See, I don't see what's wrong with sleeping around. I agree we shouldn't treat it as "just having sex" so casually, but I think it can be a casual thing and if you want to have sex with someone then why not?

Sleeping around is 'just having sex', you can put lipstick on a pig and its still a pig - same with words and phrases.

I think that when people like you in situations like this say someone has no respect for themselves, it's just because that person isn't acting in the way that you want them to. If you wish to have sex with someone, it's your decision and no one else's. Respect has nothing to do with it unless you're just banging everyone that moves when you haven't even really met the person or just fancy a bit of sex.

I'm not proposing to enforce my attitudes legally *unlike many others* in any way so I have no idea where this point came from.

And I don't see what's wrong with having sex because "it's good" ..... Why else lol

Well because it demeans the act then, its hedonism in a sexual sense. A great deal of people who act in the way you state is correct will, when older, come to regret their actions. Not being judged by others, but how they feel about themselves and how they themselves acted.

[Judas]

Sleeping around is 'just having sex', you can put lipstick on a pig and its still a pig - same with words and phrases.



I'm not proposing to enforce my attitudes legally *unlike many others* in any way so I have no idea where this point came from.



Well because it demeans the act then, its hedonism in a sexual sense. A great deal of people who act in the way you state is correct will, when older, come to regret their actions.

Not being judged by others, but how they feel about themselves and how they themselves acted.

When on earth did I talk about anything being enforced legally? What are you on about :S

And so you think people should not have fun while they can because there could be a chance they regret it one day? You could say that about literally anything you do for enjoyment.

In the same way, maybe a lot of people also, when older, wish they weren't so uptight and had a bit more fun when they were younger... Who knows