Judging

[CaptainAce$$]

Don't judge those until you find out for yourself how the person really is. In other words, don't judge a book by it's cover otherwise the world will be a lonely place.
Do you agree, disagree. Had an experience of being judged or were you the one doing the judging, if so, Reply

[geo]

I think we all say that but then we've all been guilty of judging someone before we know them.

I'm forever being judged and I don't really judge many people any more, I try giving everyone a chance lol.

[Zahura]

You have to judge people, It's instinct to judge dangers etc.

[kitten]

i'm always judged, i just ignore it because most of the time the person judging me doesn't know a thing about me.

[beth]

everyone judges everyone everytime they meet them. it's a subconscious thing. you always make an initial judgement about someone.

[buttons]

yeah first impressions count for a lot. even if that's not who you really are, first impressions often are lasting impressions. even if someone isn't who the seem on the outside, it's still a reflection of the type of person they are. we judge people subconsciously and that's okay. must admit i have a habit of disliking people very quickly but more often than not, i'll grow to like them. better that than to like someone and find out they're someone completely different

[Cerys]

I always get judged for the wrong things. Really annoys me because I'm not like what they think I am..

[Samantha]

I get judged I think mainly because I'm small and quiet. So what if I am? I can stand up for what I believe in and although I may not look like 17 I'm sure I act like it most of the time. People judge me because of my looks and the other day I was in Tesco toilets and someone said 'let that little girl go past' I might be little on the outside but inside I have a big heart etc of course that was a bad example as I probably will not see them for a long time. However, many people judged me in high school because of the reasons above, underneath I was a good person mostly, I had friends and everything and I was likeable but some people just had a massive vendetta against me for no reason. They were just idiots and I'm glad I don't have to be with them anymore. College is different but some people are still there and I think they have also realised not to judge as they are more like my friends than enemies now!

I agree fully that you shouldn't judge someone before you know them!

[Paige.]

I judge people sometimes but I agree with the majority of the people in this thread who have said it's like an instinct and almost everyone does it. I don't like being judged so really I shouldn't judge but I always listen to what people say and for example if I judge someone and automatically think they're a loud mouth then I will still speak to them and I will not ignore them or avoid them because it's only fair that I give them a chance

[dbgtz]

I judge people, I don't feel bad about it. The world gets by through judgement of everything and any saying which goes against judgement is stupid in my opinion.