I don't like the thought of pushing someone out of me.. but I would love to adopt :3 .. or a foster carer :3 Althou It would be hard saying goodbye D;

I don't like the thought of pushing someone out of me.. but I would love to adopt :3 .. or a foster carer :3 Althou It would be hard saying goodbye D;
My ex gf had a child & i loved helping bring him up so hard to say bye when it ended after 2 nhalf years.. It's made me really want kids
i dont know.
not right now
i maybe see myself adopting in the future, depends how my career goes![]()
Do I want to? Probably, but ultimately it would rely on the girl. I'm happy not to, but if she wants them then I would make clear that any goals I have a chance of achieving will not be pushed aside. That sounds quite cold hearted now I read it again.
I think I'm probably too sensitive and fragile to bring up kids. Children seem to love me and I'm fun and patient enough to play with them, and caring and delicate enough to know how to treat a baby, and I'm a good teacher and children seem to want to talk to me a whole lot. But no way could I do all that all the time. People probably think I'd make a good father, and maybe one day I will, but with my current state of mind I would just get so emotionally drained I'd probably have a breakdown. I need a good wife to build me up strong and confident for a couple of years before I'm ready to have kids.
Id like 1 or 2 in the future, but only if I was sure I could give it everything it needed![]()
I know some people are totally against this - but I'm not sure. I'd love to adopt but it's just the pressure of it all and the constant worries. Also, as someone mentioned earlier, I'd have to be in a secure relationship to even consider this really.
I'm really not sure but it's probably more no than yes but I'm not defiantly ruling it out
cats > you
YepI love children, I want at least 2
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Sometime in the future I'll definitely want kids. Two, or maybe three, but not more.
I really hope I'll have a good relationship to make this possible.
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