Marriage

[Paige.]

i don't think i can ever see myself getting married because i don't think i can commit to something like that because i usually get bored easily haha. also, if i did ever get married i know it probably wouldn't last because i'm a bossy neat freak and they'll get tired of me and the divorce procedure is too much effort and they'll probably end up with half of my possessions! i actually think marriage is really cute and a lovely way of showing your love to each other and others but then again i always think why should people have to get married to show how much they love someone? i don't know it's all confusing for me really.

[Futz]

I can only think of downsides to marriage

[chantellehugs]

I do plan on getting married in the distant future, but as many people have rightly said, a large majority have ended in divorce. A lot of people jump head first into getting married without really thinking twice and they end up finding out things about their other half, that they should have known pre-marriage, decide they don't like those aspects and get divorced.
I would like to grow as an individual before I even think about being with someone for the rest of my life. Right now I'm fully focused on my career goals and getting 'set-up' in life. Wanna be a free spirit for a while

[Kardan]

I believe in marriage, and realistically engagement will only be a couple of years off for me so marriage will be just a few years off from that - but I'm unsure how it's going to be on the day, I'm very anti-religious (that actually sounds a lot worse than it should), as in, I'm a firm believer there is no God, so I wouldn't get married in a church with a vicar etc. - but then I can't see myself getting married in some ordinary room with some woman in a suit marrying us.

As to married life, it won't bother me.

Looks like in this thread I'm the only one who is pro-marriage - no wonder that most marriages end in divorce if nobody wanted to get married in the first place Times are changing anyways

[Ekelektra]

I'm quite traditional I guess and I would definitely want to get married. Not for a while though, I wouldn't get engaged young, or to someone who I'd been in a relationship for only a little while, and I wouldn't want to get married after only being engaged for a little while.

[Shar]

I would want to get married in the near future but not for another 3/4 years. And I wouldn't want a big wedding.

[Meanies]

I think a low-budget, low-key wedding with just close people there is the way to go, none of the big BAM in your face kinda stuff, get a nice cake and the place look nice yeah, but it doesn't have to cost a bomb. Overall the whole marriage thing is really just having a ring and papers to say 'i love you', when really you don't need that, the person should know it without having to get married!!

[Korra]

To be honest, I think it's pretty pointless. You don't need to 'put a ring on it' to show that you're committed to a person. And there's always the issues of possessions and trust.

[GoldenMerc]

I can't see myself ever getting married, I don't like feeling like im stuck with one person so a marriage would be the last thing i done

[-:Undertaker:-]

I think the marriage of a man and a woman is a wonderful thing, something many don't take seriously afterwards anymore (sadly).