'genuine racism'? lets not trivialise racism now... and ok, i'm not going to argue with you over this for a 3rd day. it's quite evident that we both have different views (which won't be changing) so there is absolutely so point dragging this out. this shouldn't of even continued over the first day as it's evident that you class the concept of racism completely different to myself (you being white and me being an ethnic minority does dictate how we see things [and no, it doesn't mean the latter is more blinded, deluded, over-sensitive, etc.]). there's nothing about 'black pity' that comes into this equation, as i already said i wasn't personally offended, but rather the blame in any situation like this should be placed on the one whose saying the 'jokes' and not the people at the other end of the joke. and the fact that racism is very, very often disguised in forms of 'jokes' to argue the exact points you're making. i've seen it far too many times and even been on the receiving end numerous times. i'm assuming you'd class someone saying "would you be white if you could?" as a joke/shouldn't take it seriously as they were only 'joking'. or even "your hair is like a sponge/sheeps fur", should i not be offended as it was a 'joke'? context + it being a joke = doesn't equate to no harm or offense being done. racism (or any 'isms', etc.) just isn't as simple as some people assume them to be, especially when it comes to definitions. and there is absolutely nothing malicious about not being moved if someone dies (who i don't know, don't have any interests in or follow). i'm not going to be upset if a random person in the next street died because i just don't know the person. i would, however be more upset if the queen died because i have an interest in her. if that makes me 'unprincipled' then so be it. yet your stance on casual racism is not unprincipled, and more accepting as it's supposedly only a 'joke'?
lets just conclude this here and agree to disagree. we both aren't going to convince the other of anything, and the only thing that'll end up happening is personal insults slowly seeping in (which have already started). i respect your opinions, because they are of your own and i'm not going to be offended by people who have different views, as i expect that to happen and i don't expect to change other people's opinions either. so whether you can do the same or not, is your prerogative. mind you, i did actually find it all quite interesting. but i'm going to assume that you didn't/probably just saw me as a fly you can't get rid of.






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