Girls who give out their numbers while seeing someone.

[blackops121]

I attend college 4 days a week where I am studying Health, Fitness and Exercise so that I can become a PT in the future. To get to college however I need to get a train every morning. There was a girl I always seen on the same platform, that got the same train. She was pretty damn gorgeous I have to say, also just looked like a nice girl and wouldn't be one of those '******' nice looking girls. Soo... I worked up the courage one day and finally asked her for her number, she had a big smile and said yeah and gave me it, it went well quite obviously since we continued to speak afterwards and spoke on the train. She text me within no time at all, and we had been texting all that night. I obviously wanted her to know I did like her in that way... if the asking of the number wasn't quite obvious enough, hahaha. So I called her beautiful in one of the texts, she replied though saying;

'I feel kind of bad saying this, but I think I probably should tell you because you should probably know, I'm kind of seeing someone right now, but you seem really nice so I want to text you :/'.

I brushed it off with some quirky replies, saying how I can wait because it won't be long until she realised how simply amazing I am Ect. Haha. Since then she has said she has been impressed with some of the things I do, like play guitar and sing, work out, box ect. Quite often she does it in a very flirty way as well.

So anyways, my point is this... What do you think of girls who give our their numbers while 'seeing' someone else? What do you think of my situation? Do you think it's acceptable?

[Lee]

Kind of sounds like she may have originally been leading you on or could have been innocent and is just friendly and gave out her number due to that...

[GoldenMerc]

some girls who give out there numbers while being with guys is okay, as some girls prefer to hang around with guys than girls, but i still think it gives out the wrong impression

[Inseriousity.]

It's only a number lol. They don't just have their boyfriend in their phone!

[blackops121]

Totally understand that. Although in this day and age a guy asking for a girls number does majority of the time mean they are attracted to them and if the girl gives him it usually it means the same back. Let's be honest, not many people would go and ask for someones number straight up because they think 'She looks like she would be a very good friend.'. Or perhaps they do, I can't speak for 7 billion other people, but you get the idea!

[LiquidLuck.]

I agree with Mike. Giving out your phone number isn't asking someone to date you. It's just a new friend you can make so I don't see the problem with it.

Also if the guy is actually attracted to her, doesn't mean he'll stop being just because she has a boyfriend and if she is ''seeing'' someone doesn't have to mean they are in a really serious relationship or I think she'd have said it. They might just be trying to see how things go between them and if things go wrong, at least she gave her number to someone who is interested in her.

I think now it's kind of up to you to decide if you want to carry it on even though you'll have no idea how things will be going with her and her boyfriend, or if you think you're falsely being led on and it's not worth it.

[DPS]

If you want me to be honest.. if you want her get her! dont let her bf or whatever stand in the way lol. go out for what u want.

[e5]

Girls shouldn't really give out their numbers whilst seeing someone, but she may have wanted to see the type of guy you are and so it seemed okay to give you the number, but she should have said she was seeing someone in the first place rather than just being flirty and leading you on

[buttons]

Girls shouldn't really give out their numbers whilst seeing someone, but she may have wanted to see the type of guy you are and so it seemed okay to give you the number, but she should have said she was seeing someone in the first place rather than just being flirty and leading you on

girls can do whatever they want lol just as guys can

tbf you haven't been texting long right? at least she told you BEFORE anything happened with you two. theres also a possibility you took her compliments about being impressed with you as flirting when she was really being friendly.... it happens.
yeah it's acceptable cause she's not a toy and doesn't belong to you or the guy she's seeing.

[blackops121]

I guess it is sort of like keeping all options open, was just wondering what people thought of it