Long Distance/Internet Relationships?

[blackops121]

I was coming home from college one day as I was having a 'deep and meaningful' conversation with my good friend Liam. He was telling me about his girlfriend in America who he hasn't actually met yet but is going to fly over to see her at christmas, he was also saying how they met on Omegle of all places and then added each other on facebook and just became close extremely quickly. It touched me quite a lot to be honest, with the way he was saying he doesn't care what others think unless they have experienced it and that he can't help who he falls for. It was really cute!

But then it got me thinking, I've heard of people meeting over the internet obviously and then being together, I'm sure like a certain percentage of married couples these days have met online and stuff. So where do you draw the line?

Right now I am speaking to a girl who I know in England that I met from Twitter (I live in Scotland), and we've been talking all year and became extremely close as well, you know those 24/7 conversations that just don't get boring? We have that. Now we've agreed that whenever she comes to Scotland and I go to England, because we both have family in each country, as well as the fact I might be moving down to England for good because I want a change of scenery - we said we would meet up whenever we could.

If she lived closer I would ask her to be in a relationship with me in a heartbeat, but because of the distance it would be quite unrealistic for it to work. Yet Liam is making it work with someone who isn't even in the same time zone, they have Skype calls every single day and are happy with that. It makes me think the England/Scotland divide isn't that bad at all... but what do you all think of these type of things?

Do you think relationships that stem from the internet work? What is the longest distance you would be with someone? Ways to make it work?

[scottish]

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not going to look at every thread to see the specific but most of them are 'do you think they'll work' even debates on it.

[blackops121]

Ah balls did not think about the fact they might have topics about this already!

Allow me to re-phrase my first post briefly then, do you think a Scotland/England divide would work?

[dbgtz]

Depends where in Scotland and where in England.

[blackops121]

Depends where in Scotland and where in England.

Central Scotland and Cheshire.

[Sharon]

ok so i was like "omg" when i saw the thread title as i'm developing an obsession towards long distance relationships

anyway i love the idea of them and i think they sometimes work better than living close to them because you'll appreciate the time together more and wouldn't get to the point where you're seeing each other TOO much. but like i think both people have to really trust each other and know each other well if they're going to take it serious because obviously if there's no trust/commitment then they're both going to be ***** and see other people behind each other's backs etc. basically i love it

we've had enough relationships out of this forum to say i think they do work, but obviously getting too much exposure of your online relationship can put a negative effect on it as proved here too

oh i actually just bothered to read your post (nothing personal to u, just cba reading) and aw no actually omegle isn't bad at all you actually do come across some lovely people (then the small minority who ask you to get your **** out or ask if you want to see their penis but ok) so i can totally understand your friend's feelings and i think that's extremely cute and i wish him the best. and i've spoke to twitter guys before! most are lovely and if i lived closer to some i'd jump at the chance (dan...... to anyone who knows who i'm talking about) but unfortunately i don't and i currently don't have serious enough feelings about anyone to even attempt holding a long distance relationship i'd never completely rule it out though, can't help who you fall for right?!?!?!?!

[David]

nope wont work

[Samantha]

Me and my boyfriend were introduced online, it was over a month before we met and 19 months on were doing ok. Yeah we dont live that far apart, 12 miles/20 minutes drive but it's the fact we met online. The first time i met him i was completely nervous and i agree with @Sharon; me and him work more as we dont see each other all the time, yeah sometimes I wish things were different but you cherish the time you have together. A Scotland and English divide could work, just needs effort x.

[RyRy]

I think they work if both people are willing to put the effort into making it work. If not, it's destined to fail. So in answer to your question, if she's willing to put her all into it then yeah I don't see why not. It won't be easy though, so you should really consider whether you're happy with the way things are or whether you feel progressing a friendship to a relationship would be best for both of you.

All the best though mate.

PS. Cheshire & Central Scotland isn't that bad at all.

[blackops121]

I think one of the stories I know is that my step-dads mate is quite an overweight guy, not particularly attractive, yet he met this girl online who was a slim, extremely pretty girl - they met and got married not too long after. They fell in love with each other regardless of looks. Just thought I'd share..

Anyways, I guess it isn't that bad.