Gay Marriage.

[Eamonn]

really?

*Protest*

Hey Colin, we'll have to get married now?

Yea its defently going to be legal within the next 2 years because Elton Johns get married 3 weeks after there legal

[ross]

I have a feeling I'm slightly homophobic, I'd like to think I'm not, but I think thats partly to do with it, it's just things you associate with marriage can't happen, so I don't think same se.x marriages are right.

• Who takes who's surname.
• Two suits, two wedding dresses?

Ah.

Not really.

They might not take eachothers surname. Or they could agree on one.
Two suits? what's wrong with that - I see people in suits all the time, and there's more and two.
Also, maybe one likes to dress casual, because they can dress whatever way they like doesn't have to be a wedding dress or a suit.

And for the two wedding dresses, one woman may wear a suit - it happens.

[Pulchritudinous]

My family is quite racist and i was bought up in a racist community. Its always been a big deal to me. I remember when i was like 13 and my boyfriend was mixed race, my uncle told me he would get out a colour chart and if he was above a certain point he'd get my cousins to beat him up. He was joking... i think, but u understand where im coming from.

Completely off topic but..Yeah I watched a programme once where a mixed race family from London swapped places with a white family from Wales, and they were quite racist there about them, it's new to me, it's a multi cultural society in London, I don't stop to think about mixed race marriage.

[Col]

Yeah, there are women suits nowadays..

[Bef]

Good if same sx marriges are legal now!! My family are all a holes, im surprised im not a racist homaphobe as well lol! My cousins gay and he can't tell most of the family as he is afraid of being disowned and hes a grown man!

[Mentor]

I have a feeling I'm slightly homophobic, I'd like to think I'm not, but I think thats partly to do with it, it's just things you associate with marriage can't happen, so I don't think same se.x marriages are right.

• Who takes who's surname.
• Two suits, two wedding dresses?

That makes little sence. what does marrge entail? love, wich is the main point, in todays scoitey, the first point would be with a starte marrage also? sometimes its the femail parters sir name sometimes the male? its a choise anyway?
that just depends on if its 2 men or to women? or if they like cross dressing maybe, but i dont see what ods that makes.

The only requirment for marrage is love by deffinition, love is blind anyhow so waht else is realy needed? i jsut dont follow. and even if u woulnt want to see a gay marrage, why should u deprive others from it when it doesnt actaly effect you at all to start "/.

[Bef]

At my friends mums blessing, she wore a dress (Not a wedding dress but a dress) and her lover wore a suit.

[Col]

Good if same sx marriges are legal now!! My family are all a holes, im surprised im not a racist homaphobe as well lol! My cousins gay and he can't tell most of the family as he is afraid of being disowned and hes a grown man!

I feel so bad for your cousin, I am sure he is very sad about it

[ross]

Spankadelic and Mentor both good points.

[Bef]

He get's on with it, he doesn't wan't to cause an upset, he lives in london and we don't see much of him anyway so he can live his life pretty much how he want's. It's sad that my family can't accept it but it's the way theyve all been bought up i guess. Funny thing is, he is so camp, you can pretty much tell he is gay! You'd think my family would of realised but nope! At his mum and dad's anniversary party, my uncle made a speech about how he hoped he would live to see his oldest son married soon with kids! Those of us who he had told he was gay couldn't stop laughing.