Is a homosexual affair harder to deal with?

[Kyle]

OK so let's say you're with your man and he starts coming home later and later, he doesn't open up to you as much as he used to and doesn't take notice of your sexy new lingerie. A bit of time passes and he finally declares that not only is he no longer in love with you, he's in love with another MAN !

How much differently would you feel if your partner left you for another man? For guys, a woman. And for the gays (yuck) how would you feel if let's say you have a bf and he leaves for a woman.

pans/poly/w.e pls share ur views also

[Kardan]

Cheating is cheating in my books. I'd consider all possible situations as bad as each other I guess.

[Red]

not sure really!! Think it would be really awful to find out your husband was gay, especially if you have kids and stuff together. Like living a lie all those years but then it might be easier cause then you won' be wondering what the new partner had over you, probs can rationalize it in your head that it isn't you he just likes men lmao

[wixard]

seems kyles issue has been answered for!

thread closed

[sex]

seems kyles issue has been answered for!

thread closed

their poor kid catchy

[Futz]

this happened to a friend of mine

he's now known as the kid who turned a woman gay

In the situation described above tho I don't like the way they cheated on you for a period of time before leaving you

I have no empathy for cheaters etc and I'd just burn everything associated with them and remove them from my life

[Kyle]

seems kyles issue has been answered for!

thread closed

their poor kid catchy

lmao I wanted to put it in discuss anything but thought it was suited here. it was on jeremy kyle this morning NOTHIN TO DO WITH ME I FEEL I MUST STRESS

[Inseriousity.]

Would still suck.

Although my sister says she'd be relieved if it was another man because that'd make it less about her. Then again she also thinks bisexuals are greedy so her brain works in mysterious ways.

[Lewis]

Just as bad as each other, no matter the gender. Cheating is cheating.

[buttons]

id be more forgiving if it was with a girl. i think the reason you'd feel worse if it was with the opposite sex and you didn't know your partner was bisexual is because you might then think they're secretly homosexual and so their relationship with you has been fake.


is it different for guys tho? if your gf cheated on you with another girl, would that be a bigger deal than if she went with a guy? what about gay people who's partner goes for the opposite sex?

just read other replies, seems guys think it's the same if their girl goes with another girl. fair nuf.