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    Default If your partner didn't want kids...

    ...could you still be with them? Obviously if you don't want kids too then you'll be on the same wavelength but I think I'm right in assuming that most people do.

    If right now told me they don't want kids I'd still be like ugh wtf why but I wouldn't be like ooo IT'S OVER YOU DON'T WANT KIDS... because I'm 16 and it isn't really a deciding factor me right now. However I do want a family like as young as possible (thinking 23/4ish, no later than 28) I'm so like excited about being able to have a family lol as well as being career driven so if someone told me no and it was a serious relationship I probs would try my hardest to convince them and if it doesn't work then it is 100% over. Same with them wanting to wait ageeees until like 30/40 no ty I'm not being the uncool mum at the school gates picking up their child
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    Yup. As I grow older the idea of kids becomes less appealing. Also the fact with how much they cost - there's bigger priorities at the moment, so we might not even get around to it.

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    personally I dont really mind but I think anyone with strong opinions for or against would sort of scare me off

    but the only way I would have a kid with someone is if we were in a position to support a family

    if we were not and she couldnt understand that and wanted kids regardless I wouldn't put up with it

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    Not sure. Right now I don't really want any children because of age and what I want to do, but I think as I settle down in life it'd become something that I want. A family, a life etc.
    If he told me that he didn't want kids by then, it might be questionable. For now, it's cool.

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    I would want children, certainly.


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    I would want children. So yes, if they were totally against it, I would be saying goodbye.


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    I do want children but I think I'd be okay with it. I'd just keep putting all my love into pets instead as I plan on having a big brood of those

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    I do want children but it's still relatively early in life in this day and age to even be a consideration in a relationship. It's not a deciding factor but I would expect rational logical reasoning for not wanting them. Would just have animals if she didn't want/couldn't have kids.


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    If they didn't want children, I'd marry them.

    I don't want children so it would only be music to my ears
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    I personally don't want kids, and I make that well aware at the start of all my relationships. Right now I def don't want any as I'm only 18, but in the future who knows it may change!

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