Previous Relationships

[Gina]

how many relationships have you been in?
have you been with both guys n girls or just guys or just girls or what
how many times have you done the dirty with someone you havent been in a relationship with @Sharon; )
whats ur longest relationship?
are you single/taken? do you want to be?

so ive not been in like proper rships other than my current lmao like longest was a week probably and we didnt kisso r anything
only w/ guys
never done anything with any1 who wasnt my boyfriend (other than kissing)
longest is current which is 1yr 3months
so taken^ :dance:

oh also have u got any stories from ur past relationships? any bad break ups or whatev else

[RyRy]

how many relationships have you been in?
have you been with both guys n girls or just guys or just girls or what
how many times have you done the dirty with someone you havent been in a relationship with @Sharon; )
whats ur longest relationship?
are you single/taken? do you want to be?

so ive not been in like proper rships other than my current lmao like longest was a week probably and we didnt kisso r anything
only w/ guys
never done anything with any1 who wasnt my boyfriend (other than kissing)
longest is current which is 1yr 3months
so taken^ :dance:

oh also have u got any stories from ur past relationships? any bad break ups or whatev else

anybody on the forum wanna fill this out for me, feel like most of you know more than i do :^)

[scottish]

Okay

Four
All girls
Two
3 years
Taken

[Samantha]

I would say 3/4 relationships, the '3rd' one was probably just a pointless relationship and it didn't seem that serious after all.
All guys.
Never when I haven't been in a relationship, although if you count where my ex and I broke up, but were still practically together then 1.
Around 22 months, but he pretty much told me he didn't love me anymore 3 months prior to that, I could have broke up with him, but I had nothing to lose and then he was a complete idiot about it.
Taken at the moment, with the greatest person ever!

Prepare for essays:

The first proper relationship I had lasted 20 months and he dumped me over text after all that! I can't really remember the reason for it, I think it's because he had no money so we couldn't see each other much and it was all up to me to keep up the effort in our relationship. This guy was embarrassed to have me around his family as I was shy and didn't socialise much with them, but he never made the effort to really introduce me to them or anything so I don't see how that's my fault. He also tried it on with @lawrawrrr; and my sister, and when it ended all the truth came out and he really hurt me and abused my trust so much. He asked girls dirty questions on Ask.fm and when I confronted him he didn't really say much and it pretty much ended with an 'open relationship' even though we weren't even together lmao. He then became a bit more of a dick when I found someone else and he was like "well I had her first." and said "oh I was going to get back with you and then propose." blah, blah, blah. We don't talk anymore and the last time we spoke was when he wished me a happy 21st birthday which was in 2015. Oh also he sort of seemed to just not care anymore after 5 months into the relationship (obviously it got better), but my nanny died and he didn't really comfort me or help me whatsoever and I had to go to friends when I was wanting to get feelings out. We rarely spoke and he was always like, well other couples don't speak much, but he failed to realise that's because they saw each other more.

The second relationship was the one that lasted 22 months, it was great and everything for a period of time. When we had been together 4 months we went to London and he was like, it's alright to fancy people, but we're together etc. anyway there was this guy at work who was nice and all, but nothing would ever happen as I'm not a cheater! This guy and I got closer and I found out he actually liked me, and had done since the day he met me. My boyfriend then came out with "I don't think we will be together forever, I don't see a future with you." After that it made me think what's the point then? As this guy was practically my best friend I used to use him as my shoulder to cry on somewhat and he didn't like seeing me upset. My boyfriend said if I wanted to hang out with the guy outside of work, that was fine (he knew nothing would happen anyway), so we hung out once, I actually went shopping with the guy to buy my boyfriend's Valentine's Day present, and it was fine, it was an alright day (although the guy bought me a Valentine's Day Card and present, but it didn't make it too awkward). Anyway, after that, things changed and my boyfriend sort of didn't see a future with us together even more, and I would get worried about even talking to this friend and told my boyfriend at the time like stuff we spoke about. Then one day he text me saying "We need to talk." So I knew what was coming, and that night he broke up with me (he said I should have come out with him earlier that day and we could have sorted it out... please, you said we need to talk, don't say that if you're just going to mess with my head). So we broke up, this guy kissed me twice on nights out whilst me and this boyfriend were broken up so it was fine, my boyfriend was fine with it (he had no reason to be, as we broke up). Then the guy asked me out a while later and I said no (in hindsight I was actually worried about upsetting my boyfriend, but I shouldn't have been as he was an idiot) After that I got back with my boyfriend, and it was all going well until Christmas time. This guy (as I didn't speak to him much at all anymore in case it messed stuff up) drunk text me and I told my boyfriend, I told him "So and so drunk text me again, but it's fine the texts didn't really mean much." - the next day I got a text saying "I told so and so to stop texting you" (I had a bad feeling about this). Next day my boyfriend rings saying he's been suspended because the guy put in a complaint about him, my boyfriend later ended up being fired, and he didn't win his appeal either (I found out after that him saying "I told so and so to stop texting you" meant "Text her again and I'll smash your **** face in.") so no wonder he got fired.

So after that it was really awkward for a bit, and then my boyfriend got another job and then he changed - we stopped talking or seeing each other as much and it all started going wrong. He got the job in May and in August he pretty much told me he didn't love me anymore, but I didn't have anything to lose really so I didn't break up with him and just plodded along. He then broke up with me in October (well, he said "I want to go on a break for a little bit." (something he said he would never ask from me, for a break)). In November I asked him where I stood and he said "You're not the one for me, I want to go travelling, you've had 3 years to get a passport" and stuff like that??? Sorry, I didn't know me not getting a passport meant he couldn't travel??? He knew I didn't want to go abroad and I was scared of flying lmao... anyway that was that and we broke up. I got another boyfriend and we broke up pretty quickly (but my now ex used to be rude about it saying I had him lined up and stuff like that, but in reality, that's exactly like how me and him started going out so it's rich for him to complain). We broke up due to the fact he also got fired, and he became 'depressed' so he said he had to remove everything from his life that reminded him of work lmao.

Now, for the final part of the story - when me and this newer ex broke up, I had started speaking to the other guy again (as it was less awkward with the newer ex, than the older one), it was great, memories came flooding back, but we knew we were friends and that was it! Next thing you know, the newer ex has broke up with me (the friend was the first to find out as I was heartbroken and distraught) and then a few days later it was still raw and I said to the guy "Stop it, Andrew" as he was giving me more stock to put out... this prompted someone to go "Is there something going on with you too?" and Andrew was all like, "I wish" (as I knew he still liked me, he lied and said he didn't when I was with my newer ex, but I called bullshit on that and I was right) and then this other person went up to him and goes "What would you say if Samantha asked you out on a date?" and he said "Yes" (so I found that out as I was interested in his answer ). We then got talking, but at this point I was still hurting, anyway, we get closer and closer and my newer ex said we would be getting back together (but by this point I knew we wouldn't be getting back together). So after another few days me and Andrew decide we would hang out and agree to go see Deadpool, and I told him it's a bit more expensive in the cinema on a weekend and he said "I'm paying" and he asked why, and the cutest line ever "It's gentlemanly to do on a first date." and that's practically when he asked me out! He was like, as long as that's ok (as he knew I still wasn't sure) and he went "It's a date ." (we had agreed after we hung out that if we ever got together our first kiss would be on the steps in Thornes Park where we sat in Wakefield @Cerys;, unfortunately, this didn't happen to an extent - he kissed me twice whilst drunk, so we agreed the first sober kiss would be there, and it was ) and the rest is history! We're still together now and we go on our first holiday on Monday. So after getting close once, trying it on with me twice, getting my ex fired, not speaking to each other for nearly a year, and then getting close again, we finally went out!

tl;dr - first bf was a dick who tried it on with laura and my sister.
2nd bf was hypocritical and it was great for a bit, but it turned sour and then it was a waiting game for him to break up with me.
3rd bf was an immature, young person and got fired and got 'depressed' due to being fired (we never saw each other to be honest anyway).
4th bf is amazing, we got close but I was with 2nd bf, when I was single he tried it on with me twice, asked me out and I said no, I got back with the 2nd bf and then the 4th bf got 2nd bf fired, it became awkward and we didn't talk for about a year, then me and the 3rd bf start dating, me and the 4th bf start speaking again, the 3rd bf gets fired and becomes depressed, the 3rd bf dumps me for being fired and depressed, I then finally go out with the 4th bf who I could have dated two years prior if I had a backbone lmao.

Sorry it's so long, I've been writing this for nearly an hour.

[Gina]

I would say 3/4 relationships, the '3rd' one was probably just a pointless relationship and it didn't seem that serious after all.
All guys.
Never when I haven't been in a relationship, although if you count where my ex and I broke up, but were still practically together then 1.
Around 22 months, but he pretty much told me he didn't love me anymore 3 months prior to that, I could have broke up with him, but I had nothing to lose and then he was a complete idiot about it.
Taken at the moment, with the greatest person ever!

Prepare for essays:

The first proper relationship I had lasted 20 months and he dumped me over text after all that! I can't really remember the reason for it, I think it's because he had no money so we couldn't see each other much and it was all up to me to keep up the effort in our relationship. This guy was embarrassed to have me around his family as I was shy and didn't socialise much with them, but he never made the effort to really introduce me to them or anything so I don't see how that's my fault. He also tried it on with @lawrawrrr; and my sister, and when it ended all the truth came out and he really hurt me and abused my trust so much. He asked girls dirty questions on Ask.fm and when I confronted him he didn't really say much and it pretty much ended with an 'open relationship' even though we weren't even together lmao. He then became a bit more of a dick when I found someone else and he was like "well I had her first." and said "oh I was going to get back with you and then propose." blah, blah, blah. We don't talk anymore and the last time we spoke was when he wished me a happy 21st birthday which was in 2015. Oh also he sort of seemed to just not care anymore after 5 months into the relationship (obviously it got better), but my nanny died and he didn't really comfort me or help me whatsoever and I had to go to friends when I was wanting to get feelings out. We rarely spoke and he was always like, well other couples don't speak much, but he failed to realise that's because they saw each other more.

The second relationship was the one that lasted 22 months, it was great and everything for a period of time. When we had been together 4 months we went to London and he was like, it's alright to fancy people, but we're together etc. anyway there was this guy at work who was nice and all, but nothing would ever happen as I'm not a cheater! This guy and I got closer and I found out he actually liked me, and had done since the day he met me. My boyfriend then came out with "I don't think we will be together forever, I don't see a future with you." After that it made me think what's the point then? As this guy was practically my best friend I used to use him as my shoulder to cry on somewhat and he didn't like seeing me upset. My boyfriend said if I wanted to hang out with the guy outside of work, that was fine (he knew nothing would happen anyway), so we hung out once, I actually went shopping with the guy to buy my boyfriend's Valentine's Day present, and it was fine, it was an alright day (although the guy bought me a Valentine's Day Card and present, but it didn't make it too awkward). Anyway, after that, things changed and my boyfriend sort of didn't see a future with us together even more, and I would get worried about even talking to this friend and told my boyfriend at the time like stuff we spoke about. Then one day he text me saying "We need to talk." So I knew what was coming, and that night he broke up with me (he said I should have come out with him earlier that day and we could have sorted it out... please, you said we need to talk, don't say that if you're just going to mess with my head). So we broke up, this guy kissed me twice on nights out whilst me and this boyfriend were broken up so it was fine, my boyfriend was fine with it (he had no reason to be, as we broke up). Then the guy asked me out a while later and I said no (in hindsight I was actually worried about upsetting my boyfriend, but I shouldn't have been as he was an idiot) After that I got back with my boyfriend, and it was all going well until Christmas time. This guy (as I didn't speak to him much at all anymore in case it messed stuff up) drunk text me and I told my boyfriend, I told him "So and so drunk text me again, but it's fine the texts didn't really mean much." - the next day I got a text saying "I told so and so to stop texting you" (I had a bad feeling about this). Next day my boyfriend rings saying he's been suspended because the guy put in a complaint about him, my boyfriend later ended up being fired, and he didn't win his appeal either (I found out after that him saying "I told so and so to stop texting you" meant "Text her again and I'll smash your **** face in.") so no wonder he got fired.

So after that it was really awkward for a bit, and then my boyfriend got another job and then he changed - we stopped talking or seeing each other as much and it all started going wrong. He got the job in May and in August he pretty much told me he didn't love me anymore, but I didn't have anything to lose really so I didn't break up with him and just plodded along. He then broke up with me in October (well, he said "I want to go on a break for a little bit." (something he said he would never ask from me, for a break)). In November I asked him where I stood and he said "You're not the one for me, I want to go travelling, you've had 3 years to get a passport" and stuff like that??? Sorry, I didn't know me not getting a passport meant he couldn't travel??? He knew I didn't want to go abroad and I was scared of flying lmao... anyway that was that and we broke up. I got another boyfriend and we broke up pretty quickly (but my now ex used to be rude about it saying I had him lined up and stuff like that, but in reality, that's exactly like how me and him started going out so it's rich for him to complain). We broke up due to the fact he also got fired, and he became 'depressed' so he said he had to remove everything from his life that reminded him of work lmao.

Now, for the final part of the story - when me and this newer ex broke up, I had started speaking to the other guy again (as it was less awkward with the newer ex, than the older one), it was great, memories came flooding back, but we knew we were friends and that was it! Next thing you know, the newer ex has broke up with me (the friend was the first to find out as I was heartbroken and distraught) and then a few days later it was still raw and I said to the guy "Stop it, Andrew" as he was giving me more stock to put out... this prompted someone to go "Is there something going on with you too?" and Andrew was all like, "I wish" (as I knew he still liked me, he lied and said he didn't when I was with my newer ex, but I called bullshit on that and I was right) and then this other person went up to him and goes "What would you say if Samantha asked you out on a date?" and he said "Yes" (so I found that out as I was interested in his answer ). We then got talking, but at this point I was still hurting, anyway, we get closer and closer and my newer ex said we would be getting back together (but by this point I knew we wouldn't be getting back together). So after another few days me and Andrew decide we would hang out and agree to go see Deadpool, and I told him it's a bit more expensive in the cinema on a weekend and he said "I'm paying" and he asked why, and the cutest line ever "It's gentlemanly to do on a first date." and that's practically when he asked me out! He was like, as long as that's ok (as he knew I still wasn't sure) and he went "It's a date ." (we had agreed after we hung out that if we ever got together our first kiss would be on the steps in Thornes Park where we sat in Wakefield @Cerys;, unfortunately, this didn't happen to an extent - he kissed me twice whilst drunk, so we agreed the first sober kiss would be there, and it was ) and the rest is history! We're still together now and we go on our first holiday on Monday. So after getting close once, trying it on with me twice, getting my ex fired, not speaking to each other for nearly a year, and then getting close again, we finally went out!

tl;dr - first bf was a dick who tried it on with laura and my sister.
2nd bf was hypocritical and it was great for a bit, but it turned sour and then it was a waiting game for him to break up with me.
3rd bf was an immature, young person and got fired and got 'depressed' due to being fired (we never saw each other to be honest anyway).
4th bf is amazing, we got close but I was with 2nd bf, when I was single he tried it on with me twice, asked me out and I said no, I got back with the 2nd bf and then the 4th bf got 2nd bf fired, it became awkward and we didn't talk for about a year, then me and the 3rd bf start dating, me and the 4th bf start speaking again, the 3rd bf gets fired and becomes depressed, the 3rd bf dumps me for being fired and depressed, I then finally go out with the 4th bf who I could have dated two years prior if I had a backbone lmao.

Sorry it's so long, I've been writing this for nearly an hour.

i proper enjoyed that
u should write a book i would 100% read it
i didnt even use the tldr

[Brad]

how many relationships have you been in?
I have been in six serious relationships that I can remember.
Have you been with both guys n girls or just guys or just girls or what
Four of those serious relationships were girls. The other two were guys (last one which I currently am in still)

how many times have you done the dirty with someone you havent been in a relationship
I have actually only done this once and it was during my phase where I questioned who I really was. It was when I was experimenting with men because I was nervous to do so but after the last break up with my last girlfriend I was at a low state and I literally became a booty call to people on grindr but I literally only teased this one individual and I ended up doing things on multiple occasions. Until I found value in myself and snapped back to reality.

whats ur longest relationship?
Actually the relationship that I am currently in right now is my longest relationship I could never make it past 6 months with a girl and right now I am about 9 with my current boyfriend.

are you single/taken? do you want to be?
I am taken.

oh also have u got any stories from ur past relationships? any bad break ups or whatev else
Lol. Yes two good stories;
My first is from my very first serious relationship with a girl. She went batcrazy when I broke up with her and two months after she called me saying that she was pregnant and that I was the father and for like a good couple days she had me convinced until her best friend told me she was lying so she could get me back. Lol
Second is from my last girl relationship and she was a Christian and when I came out as being gay she turned all my friends on me saying that I abused her and caused her to go into depression and make her attempt suicide. It was crazy. Still trying to tell people that she was crazy... but I've just come to a point where I just don't care anymore. Lol

There's my story.

[Cerys]

How many relationships have you been in? : are you counting this as proper ones or just silly little ones? I've only been in one proper but had 8 others or maybe more idk : )

Shall I list them cos it's half one and I'm super bored

Okay so first was Eddie he asked me out over xbox live and wrote me a poem for my birthday, one of the lines was 'whether u live in a house or a terrace u will always be my cerys' then I ran away shortly afterwards !!
Then was Danny who I was obsessed with for ages, but then ignored as soon as he liked me back
Then I met Craig in cadets, gave him the nickname tall ginger pedo, he was nice but the type of guy to sleep with u no matter what (I was only 13 or 14 wow ) so I stopped going to cadets and ignored him til he gave up. I got back in touch with him 2 yrs ago approx and his best mate was Andrew who I'm now with so it's gd that I met him even if he was a creep
Then after Craig was kyle omg i forgot about him, I met him at pgl and we dated after the like 2nd day then on the last day I accidently threw a ball at him and it hit him in his face so he left me rip
After that I had a break for a while then met harley while in France, he was a posh Londoner it was gr8 but he talked down to me so I told him to go away
During harley I met James who @Elegance; has had the honor of meeting, he was nice!! I met him at pgl and I went home early half way through the week cos I got bullied lol cries4eva but he phoned me and was like lol u wna d8 and it was all going well til I realised he was a bit of a weirdo
Then was Tom, he was legit lovely and I screwed him over and I'm a **** for it I actually hate myself thinking back, so he had a crush on me all through school then he finally asked me out (this is yr 11 iirc) and I was like lol ok xxx but then i just ignored him and he got so upset he missed school for like a week
THEN I started talking to one of my friends older brothers like it was normal I was just using him for lifts home from school cos I was lazy but he got weird and started driving me down to this park 10 miles away and trying stuff and letting himself into my house when he dropped me off. Nothing bad happened but it was creepy af and I avoided him at all costs
Then there was creepy emo Alex who I genuinely liked but he kind of looked like a sheep, but yknow life goes on, however during my time with him I went to Craigs house party and met Andrew!!! So I left Alex a few days after
So yh Andrew, we shared a bed the night we met (totally pg dw) and talked all night getting to know each other it was amazing, then a week later he took me on my first date ahhhh he was like do u like burgers and I said no so he took me to handmade burger Co lol gr8 start x bored now tho but off on our first solo holiday soon

THAT IS ALL


how many times have you done the dirty with someone you havent been in a relationship with: never done tht I am a respectable woman !!!



whats ur longest relationship?: this one, it's been 2 years and 1 month



are you single/taken? do you want to be: taken and no comment l o l

[_HeyyItsHannah_]

ow many relationships have you been in? 4
have you been with both guys n girls or just guys or just girls or whatI have been with 3 guys and 1 girl. Currently a guy.
how many times have you done the dirty with someone you havent been in a relationship with? 2 or 3 times probs.
whats ur longest relationship? Around a year.
are you single/taken? do you want to be? I'm taken by @Kronics and yes ofc I want to be or else Kronics would be waving goodbye.

I feel really awks now that I have tagged my bf in this and he's going to know all my pst relationships rip. I'll probably hear about this one later.

[e5]

1 proper relationship.

7 years with 1 year break where we saw other people. during that year she had a new bf and I just slept with 2 girls. But we had or freedom and found our way back to each other.. awww

[Empired]

@Samanfa; same as Gina I legit enjoyed that entire post and read it all just after I woke up on my phone an hour ago.

And I'm surprised no one else has quoted Pyroka and made up dating stories for him yet lols