kissing...

[GommeInc]

If guys only want to go out with you for a snog then they are obviously not right for you. They should know about how you are feeling and what you like to truely love you.

[RedStratocas]

im like 12 and never snogged nobody before,i know im still young but all my friends have done it and i feel really left out,most guys dump me because im too shy to snog them.It really hurts me. i would snog a guy but i have no experience and i very worried it would go wrong.Plus the shy-ness just annoys me!!!

i know this is going to sound a bit weird but i need tips on how too...

this is embrassing for me... anyways thanks.

Havent you learned anything? "All my friends have done it" is basicly the first excuse for people who try or want to try drugs/alcohal/smoking ect. 12 is young, and no one makes fun of you for havent kissing a guy.

[GommeInc]

I think you are very mature for not immediately thinking "Snob every boy I see", its admirable in a way...

[Insanity]

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Hello i am 17 years old and never jumped off a cliff before, all my friends have done it. i feel really left out.i would jump off the cliff but i have no experience and i'm very worried it would go wrong.



basicly, do what you like just dunt complain when you have to miss out on your teenage years because of your baby, just cause everyone else has done it. doesn't meen you have too.

[Rosie]

It's not a case of " Knowing when to stop" you can't shout stop when your been jumped on draged away to get rapped n murded by sad old perves because it wont work. they wont just jump off you pick you up and brush you down and say oh sorry my fair lady. when my cousin got "attacked" her freind was there with her but she was too scared to do anything.
you may think oh i'm safe i'm with my freinds they'll protect me. but you can't be 100% even if they say they would. and thoose kind of clothes are disgusting for young people, you may wanna seem all grown up but been grown up is been SENSIBLE not been a ******* . that makes you stupid not sensible, thinking cause you wear things like that you get more repect and attention.. but think Why do you get that kind of attention cause they wanna get in your knickers ! !
so what would you want, short skirts tight tops and a guy that takes advntage and chases other girls of the same nature, or been sensible dressing sensible and getting a guy that wants you for you and nothing else till the time is right i.e TWENTY ONE lol

( i know i sound like an old man i'm 17 though and i think what i've said is right... but like i say it's your life don't go complaining when the guy takes advantage. )

Thing is i dont go for guys who are 21 Lol when i go out its under 18's places and all that im not gonna go away and chat up sum random bloke thats about 20! And we hang around in groups Pretty big groups and i dont choose short skirts to make me feel grown up lol i wear them cause i want to now your saying if you want a proper lad you cant wear short skirts. Think again

[Insanity]

Thing is i dont go for guys who are 21 Lol when i go out its under 18's places and all that im not gonna go away and chat up sum random bloke thats about 20! And we hang around in groups Pretty big groups and i dont choose short skirts to make me feel grown up lol i wear them cause i want to now your saying if you want a proper lad you cant wear short skirts. Think again

i never said ppl are chatting up 21 year olds, you don;t have to chat to them for them to abuse you they will sit there like sad $%^?#@ waiting for you.
and also i never said " if you want a proper lad you can't wear short skirts " either, i'm saying wearing them provokes them more.

[Rosie]

i never said ppl are chatting up 21 year olds, you don;t have to chat to them for them to abuse you they will sit there like sad $%^?#@ waiting for you.
and also i never said " if you want a proper lad you can't wear short skirts " either, i'm saying wearing them provokes them more.

Okay i see where your coming from and all that But wearing a short skirt haning around is groups of Hmm lets say about 15 with quite alot of boys aged around 15-17 And girls Its unlickley but walking yourself yes probably

[Insanity]

yes, but your not with big groups 24.7 are you. theres always one time when your alone evan in the day time when it's light, theres that many sickos about theese days
and they was gunna bring out a new law dunno if they have persued it but they did it in our town, your not aloud to hang out in more then groups of three. ment to keep you out of trouble but keep you safe at the safe time ;l

[Rosie]

yes, but your not with big groups 24.7 are you. theres always one time when your alone evan in the day time when it's light, theres that many sickos about theese days
and they was gunna bring out a new law dunno if they have persued it but they did it in our town, your not aloud to hang out in more then groups of three. ment to keep you out of trouble but keep you safe at the safe time ;l

So your sortof limmiting yourself to the friends you have and Hang about with ;S will some not socialise with some of there friends Thats wrong but rite in a way, im used to hanging about in big groups ;[

[Insanity]

So was i, thats probly why they introduced that law x']
i'm a good boy really.