It's her birthday soon..

[Sxejess]

Yaeh... I will.. should I give her the pressent earliy or late?

Early because it shows you weren't lazy by giving it to her late, she may think you couldn't be bothered to give it to her on her birthday or before which may send a negative message to her about you, but if you give it to her early then it shows that you wanted to make sure she got it before or on her birthday incase you saw her after it, it may show her you really do care

[blanky12!]

Early because it shows you weren't lazy by giving it to her late, she may think you couldn't be bothered to give it to her on her birthday or before which may send a negative message to her about you, but if you give it to her early then it shows that you wanted to make sure she got it before or on her birthday incase you saw her after it, it may show her you really do care

Might do it early, yes. but what I might do is; saee how it goes..

[blanky12!]

i don't want her to go see her ex!

[Sxejess]

i don't want her to go see her ex!

You can't tell her what to do 2bh because its her life, but you could say to her 'look I honestly have a big bad feeling that he'll just upset you when you see him', that shows her that you actually care about her getting hurt by him again. Tell her you would love to spend more time with her, which hopefully she might blow him off, now I'm running out of ideas with how you feel about her seeing him, without making it sound like your telling her what to do, thats a hard one!

[blanky12!]

i jsut texted her saying

"I don't know personally don't think you should.. and I know it's not up to me.. at all and i know i am out of my rights telling you what to do but from a friend to a friend"

[Sxejess]

i jsut texted her saying

"I don't know personally don't think you should.. and I know it's not up to me.. at all and i know i am out of my rights telling you what to do but from a friend to a friend"

Thats the best way you could have ever put it, tell me what she says to it, and don't be upset if she says shes going to see him because its her choice but let her know again that your looking out for her

[blanky12!]

Thats the best way you could have ever put it, tell me what she says to it, and don't be upset if she says shes going to see him because its her choice but let her know again that your looking out for her

I then texted her afterwords saying;

"i'm sorry, I didn't mean to be mean to you, I reget it now.."

she said, yeah thats cool..

then i put "night xx"

[blanky12!]

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Hmm, I like it!

[Sxejess]

Thats gorgeous! I don't think you have to worry about her not liking or wearing it because if she doesn't wear it then shes mad! Who could pass off a good present like that? Its good you said sorry to her about being mean but 2bh its the nicest way you could have worded it really all the other ways sound so mean! Well I hope you work it out with her

[Casual]

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Hmm, I like it!

Thas sweet But remember its not about the size of the present its the thought. And by the looks of this thread (yes i read it ALL.) you really care! So take one deep breath and give it to her. But do it when shes alone to get a proper reaction :] most people don't react to things aswell when their with mates if its a present to them :p And jess you have helped him loads ;o +rep even though its grey

Good Luck Matey!