have u ever cut?

[oli]

Yes, you do only care about yourself. If you didn't you'd realise that people have their own problems and they have their own method of getting through it.

Yeh but it must be perfect because according to you nobody has problems, and if they do have problems they can just forget them in a flash!!

If you were being open minded you'd understand that people are DIFFERENT and they manage their lives in DIFFERENT ways.

w o w you just ruined my evening there mate, unfriending me is a low blow
heartbroken.

u just lost a gr8 friend!!!
and i still dont get how im only caring about myself but o k k k
whos saying i dont understand people are different? didnt say that once but o k k k

and its stupid if someone dwells on the bad parts of life, whats the point in that, if you're just gunna be miserable the entire time theres no point in you even being here, life is meant to be fun and if you're not gunna enjoy it ur just a waste

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@oli; do you agree that all kinds of self harm are stupid or just cutting?

cutting especially

what other types do u mean

[Cerys]

u just lost a gr8 friend!!!
and i still dont get how im only caring about myself but o k k k
whos saying i dont understand people are different? didnt say that once but o k k k

and its stupid if someone dwells on the bad parts of life, whats the point in that, if you're just gunna be miserable the entire time theres no point in you even being here, life is meant to be fun and if you're not gunna enjoy it ur just a waste

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cutting especially

what other types do u mean

Other types could be starvation, drinking toxic fluids, burning yourself, pulling your hair out and so on.


....you're unbelievable. I don't understand how someone can be such a little ****.

[sex]

u just lost a gr8 friend!!!
and i still dont get how im only caring about myself but o k k k
whos saying i dont understand people are different? didnt say that once but o k k k

and its stupid if someone dwells on the bad parts of life, whats the point in that, if you're just gunna be miserable the entire time theres no point in you even being here, life is meant to be fun and if you're not gunna enjoy it ur just a waste

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cutting especially

what other types do u mean

alcohol, drugs etc are all forms of self harm (i'm sure you have admitted to doing both)
you're harming your body with these its just not as obvious lol..

[oli]

alcohol, drugs etc are all forms of self harm (i'm sure you have admitted to doing both)
you're harming your body with these its just not as obvious lol..

yh ive done both

theyre not good but im still gunna say i used them to have a good time ~ to enjoy life

[wixard]

oli m8 no offence but your arguments are weak as

especially the 'get a new family' one...lol

[sex]

yh ive done both

theyre not good but im still gunna say i used them to have a good time ~ to enjoy life

using them could probably be described as a relief? people find cutting themselves a relief in a sense... both are self harm, just because one is less obvious doesn't make it any different lol

[oli]

using them could probably be described as a relief? people find cutting themselves a relief in a sense... both are self harm, just because one is less obvious doesn't make it any different lol

i dont use them as a relief, i use them as a chance to let my hair down more than usual
theyre not necessary to have a good time but they certainly help everyone become more comfortable n friendly

[sex]

i dont use them as a relief, i use them as a chance to let my hair down more than usual
theyre not necessary to have a good time but they certainly help everyone become more comfortable n friendly

make your mind up?? it seems you can't decide whether or not you do it for fun or relief????? if they make you feel more comfortable surely that's some sort of relief

[Yupt]

never understood how putting yourself in physical pain can help your emotions. all it does is increase the number of problems you have because now you have to worry about "pls no infections, ow this hurts, stop stop looking at me".

communication i feel will always be the best form of help.

[oli]

make your mind up?? it seems you can't decide whether or not you do it for fun or relief????? if they make you feel more comfortable surely that's some sort of relief

fine u win this 1 comity
but drinking isnt the same thing as cutting, they are completely different situations

people drink just to have a laugh, people cut so that they feel physical pain