have u ever cut?

[Succubus]

never understood how putting yourself in physical pain can help your emotions. all it does is increase the number of problems you have because now you have to worry about "pls no infections, ow this hurts, stop stop looking at me".

communication i feel will always be the best form of help.

For me physical pain is much worse than emotional pain, therefore when I focus on physical pain I forget about emotional pain. Its temporary, obviously. Some use the fact that when the blood leaves, it's there issues going away. People do it for different reasons but I hope that helps you understand a little?

Communication is great when you're not nervous! I agree, but it's not always easy

[IzzyUhh]

never understood how putting yourself in physical pain can help your emotions. all it does is increase the number of problems you have because now you have to worry about "pls no infections, ow this hurts, stop stop looking at me".

communication i feel will always be the best form of help.

I know what you mean but idk some people dont worry about that i mean i sure would like if it was that severe, but it does help, maybe not everyone

[Yawn]

i've just read as much of this thread as i can be bothered and jesus christ oli i dont even know where to begin. everything u have said is stupid as ****

do u believe wat u r saying? r u trolling?
:S

[oli]

i've just read as much of this thread as i can be bothered and jesus christ oli i dont even know where to begin. everything u have said is stupid as ****

do u believe wat u r saying? r u trolling?
:S

so you're saying cutting isnt a stupid thing to do?
you're saying its clever?

[Cerys]

fine u win this 1 comity
but drinking isnt the same thing as cutting, they are completely different situations

people drink just to have a laugh, people cut so that they feel physical pain

Tbh, one of my friends who cuts says that he does it so not only it is his relief, but it is also so he knows that he can still feel pain. He feels numb from everything he has gone through etcetc
if you see what I mean.

There's so many reasons to cut, so it is ridiculous to say that every one of these reasons makes you an idiot/ungrateful/whatever else you said

[sex]

fine u win this 1 comity
but drinking isnt the same thing as cutting, they are completely different situations

people drink just to have a laugh, people cut so that they feel physical pain

but drink is self harm to an extent!! you just part-take in it so you agree with it lol

[karter]

everyone should just be me
happy and proud of who they are
determined to live a happy life even if theirs is ****

also a stubborn nature and stinking personality :¬:

[IzzyUhh]

this might be just silly me but isnt like over drinking, binge drinking technically self harm idk

Youre harming your liver? For future and mentally

IDK BINGE IDK

[oli]

Tbh, one of my friends who cuts says that he does it so not only it is his relief, but it is also so he knows that he can still feel pain. He feels numb from everything he has gone through etcetc
if you see what I mean.

There's so many reasons to cut, so it is ridiculous to say that every one of these reasons makes you an idiot/ungrateful/whatever else you said

why doesnt he pinch himself instead?

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this might be just silly me but isnt like over drinking, binge drinking technically self harm idk

Youre harming your liver? For future and mentally

IDK BINGE IDK

yh comity is saying that

[Yawn]

so you're saying cutting isnt a stupid thing to do?
you're saying its clever?

IM NOT LABELING CUTTERS THEY DONT NEED TO BE LABELLED ANYTHING. PPL THAT CUT R NOT STUPID.

U HOWEVER R STUPID!!!