Slitting Wrists

[FlyingJesus]

How do you measure emotional strength? It depends on circumstance, ideology and of course the person in question. To be honest, males are generally stronger in both aspects, whether feminists/equality liberals like it or not, there are of course exceptions to each and every rule but you have to accept facts. As a side note, you're not very good at detecting sarcasm.

[sarey]

Neither are you at detecting my sarcasm.
Males are not emotionally stronger, which is why girls are more open about their emotions than boys, physical strength and emotional strength are different, males are stronger, girls are stronger in emotions because females express them more wisely and openly, whereas males open their feelings up uncertainly and unsecurely. My dad for example, covers all his real feelings with anger, im betting some males do that aswell, including yourself.

[Heinous]

Neither are you at detecting my sarcasm.
Males are not emotionally stronger, which is why girls are more open about their emotions than boys, physical strength and emotional strength are different, males are stronger, girls are stronger in emotions because females express them more wisely and openly, whereas males open their feelings up uncertainly and unsecurely. My dad for example, covers all his real feelings with anger, im betting some males do that aswell, including yourself.

Pride is also a factor.

[Rob]

Self harm = need for attention.

Yeah, people say > OH, I'm so depressed, I'm gonna cut myself.

It's all obviously for the attention, it just gets on my nerves. If you're depressed, find a simple pleasure in life, don't destroy it. We only live once. If you're stressed, take up a sport. Like I skateboard, it helps me take out the stress. Alot of people can take stress out by playing ball games, e.g football. You can smack the ball as hard as you want.

I think the worst things are SH (Self Harm) sites. I can't believe some cruel, cruel person has sat there and made a website telling people how they can kill themselves. It's the work of the devil.

I think the main people who do it are Emo's. They say they're depressed, and they say they listen to depressive music. That's a load of crap. Fall Out Boy, My Chemical Romance, The Academy Is.. depressive music?!? I think depressive music is slow music, because with slow music you can think more. If I'm depressed, I just shove some heavy metal on, I don't see how people can actually say it's depressive, because it's fast music, well, most of it is. It cheers me up.

That's all I have to say,
Rob

[sarey]

Hm.. another pathetic male. You think that Rob, you think that.

[Many]

Hes made a few points.

[sarey]

No hes made idiotic points about selfharm which he knows NOTHING AT ALL about. Selfharm is a coping mechanism. Not attetion seeking. People who cut to be cool/attetion seek, those are the people you can call that. But 2/3 selfharmers have a real reason. Like, to feel pain, cope with a problem, punishment, too see blood, whatever, every 2/3 selfharmer has a real reason, mostly the other 1/3 is just cutting for attetion/to be cool.
And i dont want any arguements with this post because im sick of arguing now/debating, whatever were doing here. Girls are emotionally stronger, boys are physically stronger, ie:
A male is upset, the male hides the upset feeling and replaces it with anger.
another ie:
A female is upset, the female lets the upset feeling out by crying. Which means females are stronger because they are expressing it more securely, and properley ie: crying. Which means females can handle emotions and control them, males just replace it with anger or whatever. They hide it. From experiences, thats what ive seen so far. And im not changing my opinion.

[Teh_Dazeh]

People use Razor blades, lyk in the greenday music video.
lawl.

It's a sad idea to cut yourself though, like that's going to solve your problems? =l

[sarey]

in some cases it does =l

[Door]

Like the page said, people who SI do the complete opposite of attetion seeking. I cant get into my mind either on what i do to myself, or what my friends with SI do to themselfs, but i have too.
Theirs many reasons why people abuse their bodies ie:
- Too be punished
- Too release their feelings on themselfs because they are responsable
- Its addictive
- They'd rather focus on physical pain than mental/emotional pain...
- Someones upset you (family members, close friends)
- You want to see blood/pain..
Theirs loads of reasons why.

It does say on that site though that they can do it for attention.
I doubt that any of my friends would do it.

P.S. When youre upset you should cry or w/e