have u ever cut?

[oli]

oli its pretty evident that nothing is as simple as ur making it out to be pls stop

u r annoying i swear u just overlook everything its painful to read

its obvious you're going to have no input so can u shoo pls
you're as bad as me, you're laughing at this which is many ppl are finding srs........................
so shutup

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yes but not permanently? like my AIM isn't happiness, it's a bonus. i will feel satisfied with myself and possibly good about myself (or aspects i wasn't before). happiness could leave me soon after or it could take a while to go. i'm just saying feelings go and i'd rather strive for self approval(? /acceptance) than happiness lol

but wouldn't you feel happy if you got your self approval or your acceptance, the fact you lived life the way you wanted to live it and you would feel proud and happy of urself, yeah i get where you're coming from but why can't your aim be to achieve happiness over and over again? like you wouldn't constantly feel satisfied because you're going to come across something to put you down arent you, so if your goal is to feel satisfied its also in a way to feel as happy as you can?

[Yawn]

no1 is laughing

[oli]

no1 is laughing

you're revelling in the fact that people are arguing against me...
you're as happy as can be you've finally got what you've wanted but were too scared to tell to my face b4 every1 else did

[Onirela]

oli why don't you just stop posting your opinions and leave this thread alone
it's not benefiting you and it just winding everyone else up
the simple thing to do would be to shut up with the replies
ok ok

[geo]

its obvious you're going to have no input so can u shoo pls
you're as bad as me, you're laughing at this which is many ppl are finding srs........................
so shutup

---------- Post added 06-09-2013 at 10:36 PM ----------



but wouldn't you feel happy if you got your self approval or your acceptance, the fact you lived life the way you wanted to live it and you would feel proud and happy of urself, yeah i get where you're coming from but why can't your aim be to achieve happiness over and over again? like you wouldn't constantly feel satisfied because you're going to come across something to put you down arent you, so if your goal is to feel satisfied its also in a way to feel as happy as you can?

because for me, i'd much rather want to learn to love/like/accept myself than to be happy. i don't have to aim for happiness? like it's an emotion and people will/might feel it anyway.

i'm not saying i wouldn't feel happy if i did that, i just mean i wouldn't mind if i wasn't happy (but it's likely i would be)

it's kinda like my gcse results, i was happy about them for.. an hour? i am no longer happy about them but i am proud of myself, i think i did well. i accepted that i tried my best and personally couldn't have done better. that's how i wanted to feel about myself. after the happiness went i just went back to my normal 'okay' state, but sometimes 'okay' has to be good enough.

we're going off topic now though lmao

[Yawn]

you're revelling in the fact that people are arguing against me...
you're as happy as can be you've finally got what you've wanted but were too scared to tell to my face b4 every1 else did

cos ur ignorant and wouldnt listen. they said it better than i ever could because they have experienced it. u deserved it after telling ppl in this thread that have cut themselves and been in that horrible situation that they r stupid over and over

[oli]

because for me, i'd much rather want to learn to love/like/accept myself than to be happy. i don't have to aim for happiness? like it's an emotion and people will/might feel it anyway.

i'm not saying i wouldn't feel happy if i did that, i just mean i wouldn't mind if i wasn't happy (but it's likely i would be)

it's kinda like my gcse results, i was happy about them for.. an hour? i am no longer happy about them but i am proud of myself, i think i did well. i accepted that i tried my best and personally couldn't have done better. that's how i wanted to feel about myself. after the happiness went i just went back to my normal 'okay' state, but sometimes 'okay' has to be good enough.

we're going off topic now though lmao

yeah im saying that you don't have to aim for happiness but whatever you aim for, if you achieve it, you're going to be happy right?

and congrats on ur results

[geo]

yeah im saying that you don't have to aim for happiness but whatever you aim for, if you achieve it, you're going to be happy right?

and congrats on ur results

yes but only temporarily. it's like i don't wanna aim for something that could go so quickly. when i feel happy i try holding onto it for so long, i think i end up ruining it for myself.

i aim for stuff like grade achievements (at the moment) because they're something i can be proud of long term. i could remember i did well.

i do understand what you're saying i just guess happiness isn't my priority!

[Eoin247]

yes but not permanently? like my AIM isn't happiness, it's a bonus. i will feel satisfied with myself and possibly good about myself (or aspects i wasn't before). happiness could leave me soon after or it could take a while to go. i'm just saying feelings go and i'd rather strive for self approval(? /acceptance) than happiness lol

I would consider self approval to be the biggest part of happiness ( maybe even happiness itself?) . The times I feel happy are when I approve of how I am when I'm doing something.

[Rixion]

No and would never resort to doing so.