How gay can you go?

[HellyBelly]

^^I really don't think you're getting this.

What I'm saying is that, what if somone went through a homosexual phase, I.e, had sexual attractions, both physically and emotionally to that of their identical gender for, I'll say, 3 or 4 years. They then pinned themselves as being gay, say they're like 17 or something now, and feel they're finally through all puberty and sexual confusion, they meet somone, they get together, they become partners, a few years later when the person is like 20, they start getting heterosexual feelings and turn straight... Is that possible, if not, what's the limit?

I think its possible. My mates mum was straight all her life, and then suddenly when she became about 36 and met this woman, her feelings changed.

[Eamonn]

I sort of understand i just don't understand what you mean by the 'limit'

[ChloeDust]

That is definatly possible. My dad lives in Brighton (Gay Capital) he goes to this sandwich shop occasionaly which two men in their 30's i would say own. They both got married to a female and had kids but then they both turned gay, in their later years. :]

[Muffin]

I had a mate who was "in love" with another girl, slept with her, then realised she was straight ;P

[Bird]

I know what you mean. They could have lust for someone, then say physically do something or mentally ie; cybar. and enjoy it, then regret it afterwards I dunno tbh.

[dobzy]

It depends what you class "love as". See, you can fall in love with anyone - theres no limits on that. Tomorrow, I could go out and meet the man, or woman of my dreams.
Where the problem lies is whether or not there's sexual attraction. See - you could fall in love with a man, but not have any sexual attraction. Same, goes for a woman.

So - I basically think everyone can fall in love, with anyone, no matter what they class themself as, because you just never know who'll enter your life. And love doesn't necessarily have to include sexual attraction.

I dunno if that made sence.

[ChloeDust]

Dobzy that definatly made sense and you explained it well =D lol

[Undesirable]

It depends what you class "love as". See, you can fall in love with anyone - theres no limits on that. Tomorrow, I could go out and meet the man, or woman of my dreams.
Where the problem lies is whether or not there's sexual attraction. See - you could fall in love with a man, but not have any sexual attraction. Same, goes for a woman.

So - I basically think everyone can fall in love, with anyone, no matter what they class themself as, because you just never know who'll enter your life. And love doesn't necessarily have to include sexual attraction.

I dunno if that made sence.

Totally agree with that well done!! +rep.
As he said, love isn't based on the sexual attraction. It's a feeling from the heart. Everyone classes love as something that changes between friends..boyfriends etc. Where as i believe love is just love. It's a feeling.. your either love someone or you don't. Therefore, you can love someone, but not be attracted to them. Like your mates.
I've confused myself, so am gonna ssshhh! Intresting topic though!

Edit: just read up.. you can't ever say there is a "limit" to anything.. i'm sorry but you just can't. There won't ever be a limit, it's all dependant on that ONE individual. But yes peoples feelings will change. However, if they change.. i don't think they can say..they were truly..gay/straight etc to start with.