One of my friends is going out with a 23 year old and shes 14

[:dallsgreen]

Thats kinda gross, kinda seems like they're would be some sexual stuff going on. This guy sounds like a big loser anyway, he's 23 and dating a 14 year old? I mean come on.

[Mentor]

other than social attitudes theres no real reason people shouldn't be haveing sexual relationships at that age anyway, hell got back less than a few century's and it would be considered wired to have not yet been marrayed at that age, Humans biologically are ahead of where society places them, socitys placement is more based around institutions, such as education "/

Anyway if she wants to, it her choise "/

[@K]

It's like when my ex went out with a 19 year old when she was 12 and she wouldn't believe me when I told her what he was really like, so me and my mate went to him and told him to end it because I used to be mates with him, so he did as I told him I still cared about this girl and didn't want her to find out what he was really like after it was too late.

[ilovejordan]

She hardly ever comes to school. We thought she dropped out. But now shes usualy comes once a week. Can a 14 year old go out with a 23 year old?

Yes she can. However, by law they cannot particpate in sexual contct.

[StripedTiger]

yes they can be "goin out" but there is no way intercourse is allowed.

a girl i know (used to be really close to her) was goin out with a 54 year old called rob and did have intercourse with him.

i think that was gross but a 23 isnt THAT bad.

it will pass, when they finish she'll probs come back to school, but if i were you, id stay well out of her way, you dont wanna get pulled into it.

[RLY-CRAIG?]

Okay that's a little weird

[nixons-a-noob]

I'd say she's probably bouncing in his lap quite a lot.

i lol'd

[,kassie]

ew thats sort of gross. 23 and 14?! probably taking advantage of her...

[alexxxxx]

That's WAY too stupid, get her off him now... It's not right.

[JT-Fan]

If they are happy leave them be. But if in ANY way he is making her do anything she is unsure/uncomfortable with then speak to her.