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[WHANGFACE]

Yeah I know, why the hell would I do it to wreck a friendship? I only even thought about it coz I think hes practically guessed.

[Ostinato]

dnt tell him then, most teenage boys are homophobic, well most in my school

I disagree. You'll most likely find that teenage boys arn't actually homophobic, but their scared of getting into a friendship/talking to etc. a gay person, incase they'll be labelled gay aswell by the other 'macho' guys... :rolleyes:

Well, your still fairly young, and although you may be certain of your sexuality just now, you'd be surprised the amount of people who come out as gay, then a few years realise their actually not or it was just a phase they went through during puberty.

I say, you shouldn't do anything rash.

Think about it - your not actually going to get anything out of coming out? Fair enough, it might feel better and stuff - but why do people have to know your sexuality anyway? It's nothing to do with them... All you can really get out of this, is different treatment from your friends, as they'll think your a different person or something and try to treat you more feminine or something, and you other guys might try and keep out your way and stuff, which no-one deserves.

However, if you think you really are wanting to come out and are determined to, then I say go for it. If this friend of yours can't put his pesonal beliefs to the side for a long term friend, then he's not worth it.

[WHANGFACE]

I disagree. You'll most likely find that teenage boys arn't actually homophobic, but their scared of getting into a friendship/talking to etc. a gay person, incase they'll be labelled gay aswell by the other 'macho' guys... :rolleyes:

Well, your still fairly young, and although you may be certain of your sexuality just now, you'd be surprised the amount of people who come out as gay, then a few years realise their actually not or it was just a phase they went through during puberty.

I say, you shouldn't do anything rash.

Think about it - your not actually going to get anything out of coming out? Fair enough, it might feel better and stuff - but why do people have to know your sexuality anyway? It's nothing to do with them... All you can really get out of this, is different treatment from your friends, as they'll think your a different person or something and try to treat you more feminine or something, and you other guys might try and keep out your way and stuff, which no-one deserves.

However, if you think you really are wanting to come out and are determined to, then I say go for it. If this friend of yours can't put his pesonal beliefs to the side for a long term friend, then he's not worth it.

I think some boys might feel a bit weird around them as they probaly have it into their minds that if someones gay its gunna mean he hits on every boy in sight, and obv. its not the correct suspicion... I really wanna do it, as I know it will be a massive weight of my shouders, and I really could do with that at the moment really.. But thats the thing I'm worried about, people pushing me away. But Myles knows someone who is lesbian, and he acts totally fine with her. I just really don't know. But you have helped alot, thank you :]